"NEW YEAR SAME US?"

January 19, 2026 • 01:55:46
"NEW YEAR SAME US?"
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"NEW YEAR SAME US?"

Jan 19 2026 | 01:55:46

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New Year, Same Us.

After taking three weeks off to reset, Tony, Kiyon, Reese, and Tay link back up for an honest mental health check and a real conversation about New Year’s goals—what they’re trying to elevate and what they’re standing ten toes on. The crew talks dating in today’s era, expectations vs. reality, and how social media keeps shifting the rules. They also break down the recent controversies surrounding Doechii and Adin Ross, react to Glasses Malone’s response, and give their unfiltered thoughts on the Ravens firing their head coach. To wrap it up, they touch on the recent separation of the Scotts and what it says about relationships, growth, and pressure in the public eye. No scripts, no pandering—just real talk, real perspectives, and the same energy as always.

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[00:00:07] Speaker A: Tap into Baltimore's very own wiretap tv. [00:00:14] Speaker B: My pocket's all skinny. Yes. Yes. Yep, Yep. Middle finger. Yeah, you. When you got on army fatigues with. With beef and broccoli, you got to do the middle finger. It works, huh? [00:00:31] Speaker C: What'd you say? [00:00:32] Speaker B: Yeah. Act like you want to be here. Yeah, I think that's what he was saying. I think that's what she said. [00:00:37] Speaker C: Okay. [00:00:38] Speaker A: She was like. And then Chad. Hey, yo. [00:00:42] Speaker D: No, the funniest was. No, the funniest was she said okay, and it did the exact same thing. [00:00:48] Speaker C: So much great. I can't hear you. [00:00:50] Speaker B: I need. [00:00:51] Speaker E: I need 33k on tick tock today. [00:00:53] Speaker B: That's what I need. [00:00:54] Speaker C: Give me them glasses. [00:00:56] Speaker B: Hey, yo, not the shades. Bring it up. [00:01:00] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:01:01] Speaker E: Thank you. [00:01:01] Speaker B: Hello, eyes. [00:01:03] Speaker C: I know they've been waiting for us. [00:01:04] Speaker B: Oh, she's here. [00:01:07] Speaker D: She's here. [00:01:09] Speaker C: Okay. That was too much. [00:01:10] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:01:14] Speaker D: I'm sorry. [00:01:18] Speaker A: This is tough, bro. [00:01:20] Speaker D: Nah, that shit's really tough. [00:01:22] Speaker C: The men will suffer. [00:01:25] Speaker A: Why? [00:01:25] Speaker C: I don't know. [00:01:26] Speaker B: The. I do. [00:01:27] Speaker A: Why are we suffering? [00:01:29] Speaker C: Not. [00:01:30] Speaker A: Matter of fact. Hold on. Hold on. Yeah, let's get to that before we start this. What possessed you to go on Tick Tock? [00:01:38] Speaker D: No, no, no, no. Before we start. Start. [00:01:43] Speaker C: No, I just feel like red hair is an indicator of what. Hold on. [00:01:49] Speaker D: Let's not. Let's have this conversation. [00:01:51] Speaker A: Okay. [00:01:51] Speaker C: Yeah, yeah, yeah. [00:01:52] Speaker A: The camera started. [00:01:53] Speaker D: Oh, I didn't know we rolling. [00:01:54] Speaker A: My fault, my fault. No, I mean, like, before we start. [00:01:59] Speaker D: Before we start. [00:02:00] Speaker C: No, I just feel a woman changes her hair. It's like evolution. Yeah. [00:02:05] Speaker B: It's a new you. [00:02:06] Speaker D: I mean, new you. [00:02:07] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:02:07] Speaker B: Type vibe. [00:02:08] Speaker C: So. Yep. And the red hair is just like. You know what I mean? [00:02:11] Speaker B: It's symbolic of what. Like, what does it mean to you? [00:02:13] Speaker C: The men will suffer. [00:02:16] Speaker A: Yeah. Like she gonna. She gonna rampage. [00:02:17] Speaker C: And 50, 000 girls agree. [00:02:21] Speaker D: Okay. [00:02:21] Speaker A: They even was using the sound. [00:02:23] Speaker C: I know. I was so, like, okay, Death row contract. I was just playing around. I didn't think it would go, like, that big. But then that's when I was like, oh, yeah. When I dismissed that'. That's when it. [00:02:34] Speaker A: That's about to be a thing. All year. Different. [00:02:36] Speaker C: Yeah. I love dissing. [00:02:38] Speaker A: What the. [00:02:39] Speaker C: It's just great. It feels good. [00:02:40] Speaker A: That's what. That's. [00:02:41] Speaker C: And it's like, even if I was to happen, like, it's not my. But it's the rest of the. [00:02:46] Speaker D: Oh, so us. So, wait, do you have a. [00:02:49] Speaker C: No, no, no. Oh, how the do you know? [00:02:52] Speaker A: I know everything about everyone. [00:02:53] Speaker C: No, I Don't. [00:02:54] Speaker A: The person that's difficult to figure out is Reese. [00:02:57] Speaker D: On purpose? [00:02:58] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:02:58] Speaker C: Respectfully, I mean. No, I don't give a. [00:03:01] Speaker B: But what you mean figure out in the sense of what. [00:03:04] Speaker A: Oh, check what? [00:03:06] Speaker B: What? [00:03:07] Speaker C: Yeah, you're going down because you cannot do that. [00:03:12] Speaker B: You violating my privacy or something? [00:03:14] Speaker D: No, he not. [00:03:17] Speaker C: But me having a on. There ain't no public record. [00:03:21] Speaker A: I have people that know people with that. We just talked about how small Baltimore was. [00:03:25] Speaker C: Yeah, but you don't know. You don't know that I know. [00:03:27] Speaker D: Oh, I don't. [00:03:28] Speaker C: I don't have one. But they still going to suffer. [00:03:30] Speaker D: Doesn't they still going to suffer? [00:03:31] Speaker A: Yeah, your man is getting it back. [00:03:33] Speaker C: In blood for the girls. [00:03:35] Speaker D: Jesus Christ. [00:03:36] Speaker B: But all of us ain' bad though. [00:03:37] Speaker C: I didn't say all I said some of the was something she said all the except words. [00:03:43] Speaker D: All I know is you actually said all of the Accept my. That's what made me ask you. [00:03:48] Speaker A: Do you have a. Yeah, like where this at? [00:03:50] Speaker C: Yeah, like if I had one, it wouldn't be him. [00:03:52] Speaker D: Yeah, no, all of the accept your hypothetical right name Hype. Hype. His last name. Aical. [00:03:59] Speaker C: I don't think y' all not going to suffer. But the rest of the men I can't speak for. [00:04:04] Speaker D: I get. I'm not mad at it. Oh, okay, okay. [00:04:08] Speaker C: They deserve it. This is for my sisters, yo. No, listen, we're having a good year. [00:04:12] Speaker D: And I'm more powerful. I ain't even trying to like. But ain't. Yeah, like really ain't. Yo man, I'll be saying do the most niggerous things. You know what? [00:04:24] Speaker B: I wasn't for a long time. [00:04:26] Speaker A: Let's start the show. [00:04:28] Speaker B: I can agree. [00:04:29] Speaker A: All right, bring that we back. It's been a little minute. Episode 68 Nine something we there. Hold on. [00:04:43] Speaker D: 69. [00:04:44] Speaker A: Yeah, I think it. Oh, freaky. Just a freaked out episode. [00:04:48] Speaker C: Absolutely not. [00:04:50] Speaker A: Where's the baby oil? [00:04:54] Speaker D: Baby oils and blue tops. [00:04:56] Speaker A: Nah, it's 68. It's 68 this next episode. [00:04:59] Speaker D: Oh Lord. [00:04:59] Speaker A: I'm gonna get the all brand baby oil by the way. Cause I'm cheap. [00:05:02] Speaker D: Episode 68 definitely gonna be that gonna. [00:05:05] Speaker A: Say baby oil might not even old. [00:05:08] Speaker D: With a baby holding it. You going to have a picture of a baby. [00:05:11] Speaker A: A generic baby. Don't even make you moisturized. [00:05:18] Speaker D: Y this dude came to my bar the other day. This dude sat at my bar the other day. He walked to the bar, he literally said, hey bro, we don't drink that blue dot CK no more. I need that Blue top, Amsterdam. I said, what? [00:05:32] Speaker B: So you went down? You didn't go up. [00:05:34] Speaker D: Wait. Wait a second. [00:05:34] Speaker B: What happened? You went down. [00:05:36] Speaker D: What happened to your life? [00:05:37] Speaker B: Yeah. At that point. [00:05:39] Speaker C: You know what's so crazy? [00:05:40] Speaker D: It's crazy. [00:05:41] Speaker C: When I was 21, Reese used to serve us Diddy lemonade. I feel so. [00:05:46] Speaker A: With the oil. [00:05:47] Speaker C: No, we had no oil. It was called Diddy lemonade. [00:05:49] Speaker D: All I did was give them what they asked for. [00:05:51] Speaker C: We asked for Diddy lemonade. It was so. And lemonade. [00:05:54] Speaker D: That's what it was. [00:05:55] Speaker A: Wake up in certain holes were hurting. [00:05:59] Speaker C: You know what? [00:05:59] Speaker B: I. I used to go to excess. They had the drink. What was that joint called? Soakia World. [00:06:04] Speaker A: That was my spot. [00:06:05] Speaker B: I love that spot. [00:06:06] Speaker A: That was my spot. [00:06:07] Speaker C: I'm so sad. They. [00:06:10] Speaker D: Had to walk up three flights instead. But the ambiance, it was cool, though. You get up top, like. [00:06:18] Speaker C: And the food was good. [00:06:20] Speaker A: Before we. Before we truly start, let me ask. Let me ask y' all this. Let me ask y' all this. Shoot, mainly you. [00:06:26] Speaker D: Damn. Damn. [00:06:27] Speaker A: What do you care more about on the first date? The ambiance of the spot or how good the food is? [00:06:33] Speaker C: How good the food is. I love to eat. [00:06:36] Speaker D: I feel that. [00:06:37] Speaker A: No, if A took you to the dragon. [00:06:40] Speaker D: Yikes. [00:06:43] Speaker C: The drinking is so dangerous, y'. [00:06:45] Speaker D: All. [00:06:45] Speaker C: I can't. One drink is good enough. [00:06:47] Speaker A: Oh, you mean drink wise. Hell, yeah. [00:06:49] Speaker B: Well, that's because. [00:06:50] Speaker D: No, the food good, though. [00:06:53] Speaker B: But they don't be serving what the actual liquor is a lot. Right. Whoever left up out of that and couldn't remember the next day. Yeah, I done did that plenty of times. They were like, yo, what the. [00:07:04] Speaker C: Absolutely. [00:07:06] Speaker B: I look at my car, but okay, car here. I'm here. [00:07:08] Speaker A: I can never finish one of their long islands. [00:07:10] Speaker C: Yeah, I like the food. I'm gonna go with the food over there. [00:07:12] Speaker D: I need you to stop drinking Long Islands. [00:07:13] Speaker A: I mean, I don't drink that anymore. But when I used to, when I got into the game, that was what I did. [00:07:19] Speaker D: I'm starting. I'll get a tropical Long island every now and then. Like, if I had a long day, I'll get a tropical Long Island. [00:07:26] Speaker A: I found a new spot, so I recently moved. It's called the Blue Lagoon. [00:07:31] Speaker B: That's not new. [00:07:32] Speaker D: That's not. Wait, which one is in Rice's Town? In Rice's Town? Yeah. Yeah. [00:07:35] Speaker B: It used to be a sports bar. It was Bateman's. [00:07:41] Speaker D: Bill Bateman? Yeah, usually Bill Bateman. I mean, I know it's not about Gold's Gym. [00:07:44] Speaker A: Yeah, well, what Used to be Gold Gym. [00:07:46] Speaker D: Yeah. What is it now? [00:07:47] Speaker A: Brick bodies and. [00:07:49] Speaker B: No, no, no, no, no, no, no. It's behind Checkers. [00:07:53] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:07:53] Speaker B: Like in that same parking lot as Checkers. Yeah, yeah. [00:07:56] Speaker A: Where the giant at? [00:07:56] Speaker D: Yeah, okay. We know where the giant. [00:07:58] Speaker A: Oh, you was further down. [00:08:02] Speaker C: The question, y'. [00:08:03] Speaker B: All. [00:08:03] Speaker C: The question. [00:08:04] Speaker A: The question was, did you care more. [00:08:05] Speaker D: About the ambiance of the food? You said the food. [00:08:07] Speaker E: Yeah. [00:08:08] Speaker C: And everybody el. [00:08:09] Speaker D: Oh. Because he asked us. [00:08:11] Speaker A: But we asked you. Well, we. We typically. We're the ones choosing the spot still. [00:08:15] Speaker C: Y' all could care about that. [00:08:17] Speaker B: Nah. No, no. [00:08:18] Speaker D: Because. I mean. But to her point, though. But to her point, because I've never thought about it from that aspect. I've always thought about ambiance first. [00:08:28] Speaker A: Me, too. [00:08:28] Speaker D: Because I'm like, the food can't be terrible. [00:08:31] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:08:31] Speaker D: You see what I'm saying? Like, you're not going nowhere where the food is absolutely awful. [00:08:35] Speaker A: That's true. [00:08:36] Speaker B: Have y' all been somewhere based upon. [00:08:39] Speaker A: Yes. [00:08:39] Speaker D: Yes. [00:08:41] Speaker A: Is it Pikesville? Is that considered Pikesville? Orange Mill? Where? [00:08:44] Speaker C: What's that? [00:08:45] Speaker D: What spot are you talking about? [00:08:46] Speaker A: Yeah, I can't remember. It's like in a cut, I think. Is it Linwood? I can't remember what it's. [00:08:49] Speaker D: Yes, that's Pikesville. [00:08:51] Speaker B: That's right. [00:08:51] Speaker D: It's considered Pikesville, but it's kind of Owens Mills. [00:08:54] Speaker A: But it's not the restaurant I'm talking about. [00:08:56] Speaker D: It's on Ricetown in McDonald's, up in the Little Executive Park. [00:09:00] Speaker C: I've never been. [00:09:00] Speaker A: That was trash. [00:09:01] Speaker D: Okay. [00:09:02] Speaker A: I'm being honest. Beautiful spot. [00:09:03] Speaker D: So Linwood's was. That food was trash. It's another spot, though, that's down by Stevenson. I think it's called Glenwoods. It's just like Lin woods, but it's called Glenwoods. Trash. [00:09:16] Speaker C: It's big. [00:09:17] Speaker A: All the woods. [00:09:17] Speaker D: No, that's. [00:09:19] Speaker C: I think any place in D.C. for me. I went to La Vie. That's at the Wharf. Awful. [00:09:24] Speaker D: So I. Yeah. So. So to her point, it's just. [00:09:28] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:09:29] Speaker D: No, yeah. The Wolf is the wharf. I said the wolf. The Wharf is all vibe. But. So my wife worked in dc, so I've done a lot of dc, okay. And it's some fire spots in DC but it's so saturated. [00:09:45] Speaker C: Okay. [00:09:45] Speaker D: That you gotta dig through em. Like you gotta sift through the weeds to find the fire spots. [00:09:50] Speaker C: The best thing I had was the food trucks in D.C. no, the food trucks are fire. [00:09:54] Speaker D: I'm gonna tell you the best thing I've had in dc, and I don't Even like Mediterranean food. But this is a spot called Zatanga, bruh. That if. Bruh, listen, Jose Andres. Yes. All right. He's a real famous. He like a Golden Ramsay, but Hispanic. Right? He got a bunch of restaurants. No, that's not the salt bae. That's not him. But Zaytania is his Mediterranean joint in D.C. please, bro. But please. [00:10:25] Speaker B: I'm all about the food. Like, I like the ambiance to be good, but it can have pictures. [00:10:30] Speaker A: I just gotta be hitting, though. [00:10:31] Speaker E: Yeah. [00:10:31] Speaker B: Gotta hit like, if I'm gonna spend my money, the food gotta be good. Like. But I will try something. [00:10:37] Speaker D: What's this downtown on top of the. [00:10:40] Speaker B: On. [00:10:41] Speaker D: On top of the Four Seasons Hotel? Food is trash. [00:10:46] Speaker A: Never been there. [00:10:47] Speaker D: Food is trash. [00:10:48] Speaker C: Has definitely went down. [00:10:52] Speaker D: On 11. And then it's. [00:10:53] Speaker B: And then it's top tier prices. [00:10:55] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:10:56] Speaker B: For mediocre food. Like, I've been here like maybe like three or four times. [00:10:59] Speaker D: I'm not a fan of the Ruxton. [00:11:01] Speaker A: I haven't been. [00:11:02] Speaker C: I like the Ruxton. It's okay. [00:11:04] Speaker D: It's all ambiance. [00:11:05] Speaker C: It's okay. Yeah, it's okay. [00:11:07] Speaker D: The food. So my problem, My problem with, with the bygones and the Ruxtons, it's you charging me five star Michelin prices and I'm getting four star Ruth's Chris food. Like, Ruth's. I'd rather just go to Ruth's Chris, because the food is actually good. All right. Like, yeah, it's. It's a chain and it's. It's getting watered down. Which one you played out? [00:11:33] Speaker B: The one in. [00:11:33] Speaker D: The one in Pikesville. Yeah, the one in Pikesville, definitely. It's get. It's a chain. It's getting played out. But the food is fire. [00:11:40] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:11:40] Speaker D: All right. The best steak in this city, though, probably is at Morton's, in my opinion. Yeah, no, the best steak in the city is probably at Morton's. [00:11:48] Speaker C: Yo. [00:11:49] Speaker B: Texas Roadhouse got a good man. [00:11:51] Speaker C: I would go to school. You can take me to Texas Roadhouse. I'll go to Texas Roadhouse. [00:11:56] Speaker A: I prefer Longhorn. [00:11:59] Speaker E: No, no, no, no, no. [00:12:00] Speaker D: I'm sorry. I'm with Tony. [00:12:01] Speaker A: I take Longhorn. [00:12:02] Speaker D: You said Texas Roadhouse. I love Longhorn so much. That's all I heard. [00:12:05] Speaker C: I'm going to Texas. [00:12:07] Speaker B: No Longhorn. [00:12:09] Speaker D: And I don't even go to Longhorn for the steak, bro. They parmesan crusted chicken fire. God have mercy. Listen, last night we laying in the bed, she was like, we should go to lunch tomorrow. Where you want to go? Longhorn Actually, my verbatim was I said, it's a place where they got some really long horns. I said, the horns are the longest. She's like, you want to go to Longhorn? I said, you know it. [00:12:31] Speaker B: Yeah. We're just having a conversation. Like, I got this thing with. I don't go to buffets. [00:12:40] Speaker A: Like, Golden Corral in general. [00:12:42] Speaker B: Like, but the. The older that I've gotten, the more I'm like, yeah, I'm better than this. [00:12:50] Speaker A: I think it's all yo. So I really think it's just. [00:12:53] Speaker B: Can I give you. It's like, people send their kids up there to go pick over and grab food. So that's what turns me off. And if I was in a position to where I had to go there. I only want the things that are being cut by the sh. By the chef. [00:13:09] Speaker C: I can't understand. [00:13:10] Speaker B: I don't want no chicken. I don't want none of that. [00:13:14] Speaker C: I used to go to Cactus Willys as a kid. [00:13:16] Speaker D: I used to love. [00:13:16] Speaker A: Mine was Old Country Buffet. [00:13:18] Speaker D: Old Country Buffet was fired. I used to love a buffet when I was younger, bro. [00:13:22] Speaker B: But as an adult, do you still love it? [00:13:27] Speaker D: They just open up one, y' all where at? [00:13:29] Speaker C: Security up there, I think. Yeah. [00:13:34] Speaker A: Open up a what? A golden brow? [00:13:35] Speaker C: No, it's like another se. [00:13:38] Speaker B: Got one up there. Yeah, right in that same shop. [00:13:42] Speaker C: I'm sorry. [00:13:42] Speaker B: Brick bodies. [00:13:43] Speaker C: You're correct. Yep. That's what I'm talking about. Aurora. Aurora. [00:13:46] Speaker D: Yeah, I'm good, but never been in out past. [00:13:51] Speaker A: I went to Bucky's. [00:13:52] Speaker D: What is Boosie's? [00:13:54] Speaker B: He loves it there, bro. He was ran and raving about it. [00:13:56] Speaker A: Bucky's. [00:13:57] Speaker D: What is that? [00:13:58] Speaker A: Oh, my God. It's. They had a hundred gas pumps. [00:14:01] Speaker D: Oh, it's about the gas station. [00:14:02] Speaker A: Yeah, but. [00:14:02] Speaker D: Oh, in the south. Yeah, yeah, yeah. [00:14:03] Speaker A: The closest one to us is in Crawford, Virginia. Two hour ride, you know. [00:14:09] Speaker E: He said. [00:14:10] Speaker D: It'S an old mill road. [00:14:12] Speaker B: Raved about the fact that they had 100 gas pumps. And then he got into the food, and he said the food was fire. So I said, you know what? I want to go. [00:14:20] Speaker D: What's the bull, Mr. Chom Time. He did. He. He a food reviewer. [00:14:27] Speaker B: Okay. [00:14:27] Speaker A: He. [00:14:28] Speaker D: Keith Lee Jr. [00:14:30] Speaker B: Okay. [00:14:30] Speaker D: All right. [00:14:31] Speaker A: I think he actually started before. Is that from the North? He. From North Carolina. He actually started before. [00:14:36] Speaker D: He might have. He might have. But he did 24 hours at Buc Ees. All right. Where he literally went to Buc Ees, bought a tent from Buc Ees, put that joint in the parking lot on a little grassy patch and ate only Bucky's for 24 hours. [00:14:53] Speaker A: That's crazy. [00:14:54] Speaker D: It was absolutely insane. [00:14:56] Speaker A: That's crazy. [00:14:56] Speaker D: But I was like, yo, they got some good options. [00:14:59] Speaker A: What? [00:15:00] Speaker D: Yeah, got some good options. [00:15:02] Speaker C: Is it like a wawa? [00:15:03] Speaker A: It's Wawa on crack. Like think of Wawa. [00:15:08] Speaker D: Yeah, like. [00:15:09] Speaker A: Like it's Wawa on crack. [00:15:11] Speaker D: Yeah, no, it's Wawa. [00:15:12] Speaker A: As soon as niggas called into the. Yeah, like as soon as pulled in and we talking about top tier coke. Yeah, they get it from the plug himself. Like, plug here. We went in there, right? The sandwich was banging. [00:15:28] Speaker C: What kind of sandwich you get? [00:15:29] Speaker A: I got the. What was it? The barbecue brisket and like a turkey something. Okay, barbecue turkey something. But both of them is hitting. The thing that. That was tripping me out though was they mainly sell their own. [00:15:46] Speaker D: Yeah, everything is there. [00:15:47] Speaker A: Everything is there. Like they have maybe like one small sect. They even had their own wine. [00:15:52] Speaker B: Bucky's wine. [00:15:54] Speaker D: I'm telling you. And I don't be trying to advertise for other people. [00:16:00] Speaker A: Boosie's. Y' all better give us. [00:16:02] Speaker D: Go look at Mr. Chime Time. Just search Mr. Chime Time on. On socials, on whatever. [00:16:08] Speaker B: Okay. [00:16:09] Speaker D: Bucky's. He literally. And he only ate their stuff. Yeah, and they got everything. This was eating sun dried tomatoes. [00:16:18] Speaker A: Like, they got their own candy. They got their own fried on everything Now I feel like they had boosted headphones. [00:16:25] Speaker D: Yeah, no, they definitely. They had. [00:16:27] Speaker A: They had their own shirts, sweaters. [00:16:30] Speaker D: No, it's the South. It's the south answer to the Wawa. Like, it's literally like it's their thing. Like, like. [00:16:35] Speaker A: But I think they could definitely run like Walmart and like out of there. [00:16:40] Speaker B: We gonna get some like, like wiretap wings. [00:16:43] Speaker A: Hey, that'd be fire. Your sister can cook, bro. Yeah, I'm still waiting on the. [00:16:49] Speaker B: My sister. Kiara. [00:16:50] Speaker A: Kiara, what was the thing we proposed? The. The sub. The. The jerk chicken sub? Or was it. No, no, it was the oxtail oxtail sub. [00:16:59] Speaker D: My sister, you know, I've never had want I want. [00:17:02] Speaker A: I feel sorry for you, man. Next part, we bringing him some oxtail. [00:17:06] Speaker D: I don't want it. Yo. I don't want to eat the tail of any animal, you know. [00:17:11] Speaker C: You don't eat oxtail. [00:17:12] Speaker D: I've never had it. [00:17:13] Speaker A: Don't think of it like that. [00:17:14] Speaker D: No, the problem is. I know what it is. [00:17:17] Speaker A: We bring you some oxtail. [00:17:18] Speaker D: Cuz, first and foremost, none of this. Ain't nobody in here eating oxtail Them shits is cows, all right? [00:17:25] Speaker A: I would be pissed if I found out my oxtail wasn't real. [00:17:30] Speaker D: No, no, no, no, no, no. So, all jokes aside, y', all is not really oxin. It's actually coming from cows. Oh, yeah, no, that's real life. [00:17:38] Speaker B: Well, can you try it at least? [00:17:40] Speaker C: You don't want to try it. [00:17:41] Speaker D: Yo, listen, it's something about the fact that it's a tail bone, it's a bone in the mouth. [00:17:46] Speaker A: How about we do this? How about we do this? [00:17:47] Speaker C: Do you eat neck bones? [00:17:49] Speaker D: What? [00:17:49] Speaker A: Neck bones? [00:17:50] Speaker D: Hell, no. Neck bones, hog. Ms. [00:17:53] Speaker A: Listen, listen, I got an idea. [00:17:55] Speaker B: My family is from where? [00:17:56] Speaker D: South Carolina. They from there. I'm from West Baltimore. [00:17:59] Speaker A: I got. Listen, I got an idea. One of these pods, we all try something we don't eat or never tried. [00:18:06] Speaker D: No, no, no, no. I'm with that. [00:18:08] Speaker C: It depends on what it is. [00:18:09] Speaker A: You choose it, all right? [00:18:11] Speaker C: Okay. [00:18:12] Speaker D: No, no, no, no, no. Every episode, we each one person chooses what everybody tries. Okay, so, like, next week, you choose. [00:18:19] Speaker C: Then the next week, you're all drinking matcha. [00:18:22] Speaker D: Oh, I've had matcha before. I've never had matcha. [00:18:24] Speaker A: I've had a matcha before. [00:18:25] Speaker C: Well, then you not gonna drink it. [00:18:26] Speaker A: You gotta choose something else. It's a group. It's a group project. [00:18:29] Speaker D: You bring something. You bring whatever you want to bring. We. Everybody tries. Okay, I'm with that. I like. [00:18:36] Speaker C: That's fine. [00:18:36] Speaker D: I like that. I like that. All right, now bring us a squid. [00:18:40] Speaker B: Are we buying it from said place? Wherever place. [00:18:43] Speaker A: I want to try that lady that y' all be getting y' all Jamaican food. What lady? [00:18:47] Speaker B: You want to try that part? [00:18:49] Speaker A: Sorry, let me reverse that part. I would like to try the young lady's food. Yeah, that provides y' all Jamaican food. [00:18:56] Speaker D: Yo, I wanted to try that, too. [00:18:58] Speaker B: It's good, though. [00:18:59] Speaker D: But I ain't like her energy. She came in the shop. Yeah. She came in the shot one day and was like, like, all right, now. Anybody waiting to want something else? I was like, no. [00:19:08] Speaker A: That was a pretty good accent. [00:19:10] Speaker B: It was. [00:19:10] Speaker A: That was a pretty good accent. [00:19:12] Speaker B: He's American. [00:19:12] Speaker D: I was like, no, I don't want nothing from you. Me? [00:19:14] Speaker A: Did you talk like that for a whole part? [00:19:16] Speaker D: Hell, no. Hell, no. Yeah, but no, no, no, no. Her energy was crazy. Like, she came in the shot one day. I've only seen her twice. [00:19:28] Speaker B: But to answer this question, how many, like, show enough nice Jamaicans that their accents. [00:19:33] Speaker A: That's fair. [00:19:34] Speaker C: I'm gonna have into this combo, cuz. [00:19:36] Speaker A: Ron's. Ron's father always seemed like he was. [00:19:39] Speaker B: Always sound like he angry. [00:19:42] Speaker C: So, guys, my father's side of my family is Jamaican. [00:19:45] Speaker D: Yo, Are they mean? [00:19:46] Speaker C: Yes. My grandmother, she. She's very quick to tell you that you fat. Yeah, you could be this big. You still fatty. To her, it don't even matter. [00:19:55] Speaker B: She said arrow. [00:20:00] Speaker C: I don't think they mean it, though. [00:20:02] Speaker B: Yeah, it's just their natural. Yeah, they sound aggressive and they sound mean. [00:20:06] Speaker C: You gonna be fat. Whoa. She might call you fat. [00:20:11] Speaker B: I ain't never been fighting in my life, so somebody called me that. I'm gonna take it as a compliment. Small. My whole goddamn life. [00:20:16] Speaker D: Hey, yo, speaking of Jamaicans in the shop. Right, right. Why? All of the Africans that come in there be ashy as hell. [00:20:22] Speaker A: Oh, last one, though. [00:20:24] Speaker D: Every single one of them, yo, slides and. No, I'm not saying that all Africans are ashy. Me, I'm not saying that. But the ones that come into his barbershop, they be ashy. Them look like they run to the shop and put shoes on when they get there. [00:20:38] Speaker A: Even. [00:20:38] Speaker D: Even the women, like, no, they look like. They look like. [00:20:42] Speaker A: No, he's not lying. He's not lying. [00:20:47] Speaker D: They look like they play soccer with rock. I'm sorry. [00:20:50] Speaker C: I'm sorry. [00:20:51] Speaker B: Did you hear me? Did you hear me at one point in time say he's lying? [00:20:55] Speaker A: No. No, he's not lying. [00:20:56] Speaker D: Every single one of them that come in the shop, they be coming in there with the psyche. [00:21:00] Speaker A: Even the children, they be coming there. Women, children, men, all of them. [00:21:03] Speaker D: All of them. Every single one of them. Every single one of them. And I'm not saying that we love you, ashy. I'm just speaking specifically to the ones. [00:21:12] Speaker A: In Rice's Town, Maryland. [00:21:13] Speaker D: Razor's Edge Barber Shop in Rice's Town, Maryland. 201 East Main Road. [00:21:18] Speaker C: They gonna get you. It's over for you. Yeah, you're gonna be. [00:21:23] Speaker A: Let's start with that. [00:21:24] Speaker D: Let's do health checkers. [00:21:25] Speaker B: What we got, ladies? [00:21:27] Speaker A: All right. How you feeling? Huh? Oh, hold on. Oh, yeah, she got a point. [00:21:35] Speaker D: She is. [00:21:36] Speaker A: Girl, come sit right here and tell us how you feel. [00:21:39] Speaker D: She is not Mike, though. We gotta get a fifth mic. [00:21:42] Speaker E: Wonderful. [00:21:43] Speaker D: 20, 26, we got a fifth mic. We have another mic. [00:21:46] Speaker A: Do we? Oh, we got the lapels. [00:21:48] Speaker D: We got the. No, and we got the boom. I got the lapels and the boom. [00:21:50] Speaker A: Yeah, we gotta. [00:21:52] Speaker D: And I got the. And I got the lavaliers that I can connect to the phone and then hit the phone right here. Like, I got all the shades. My fault. [00:21:59] Speaker A: That's all you had, though. [00:22:01] Speaker D: You got more to say, come on back. [00:22:03] Speaker A: Say yeah. What the. We ain't seen each other in almost, what, a month? [00:22:06] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:22:06] Speaker C: Guys. [00:22:07] Speaker D: We missed you, Bri. [00:22:08] Speaker E: I be in my little bubble and I'm so happy about it. [00:22:11] Speaker D: Are you? [00:22:12] Speaker E: Hell, yeah. So, look, I dream about coming home from work. [00:22:16] Speaker D: Wow. Hold on. [00:22:17] Speaker E: That means you sleep while I'm sleep tonight. [00:22:21] Speaker D: While you sleep tonight, you dream about coming home tomorrow. I ain't mad at that. So let me ask you this question. How long have you been in your new place? [00:22:28] Speaker A: Place? [00:22:28] Speaker E: It has been officially a month. [00:22:31] Speaker D: A month? How many times? Oh, yeah. No, I. I. Applause. How many times has your homegirl that you live with been in your place? [00:22:43] Speaker E: My God. Listen here. [00:22:47] Speaker D: Because she lived down the street. [00:22:49] Speaker E: She lived around. She lived across the street. [00:22:51] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:22:51] Speaker E: Okay. [00:22:52] Speaker D: How many times has she been there? [00:22:53] Speaker E: At least five. [00:22:54] Speaker D: At least five in a month. [00:22:55] Speaker E: At least. [00:22:56] Speaker D: She there every six days. [00:22:57] Speaker E: She's there at least every four and a half. [00:23:00] Speaker A: Damn. [00:23:01] Speaker D: Can't get rid of her. [00:23:02] Speaker E: I can't get rid of it. [00:23:03] Speaker D: Ain't nothing wrong with it. [00:23:04] Speaker C: She's. [00:23:05] Speaker A: She's. [00:23:05] Speaker E: She's. She missed, Flea. [00:23:06] Speaker D: She missed. [00:23:07] Speaker B: Yo, it ain't nothing like having a home that you actually want to go home, too. I love my little. [00:23:13] Speaker E: I love. [00:23:14] Speaker C: Yeah, that's. [00:23:14] Speaker D: What's. [00:23:16] Speaker E: That. [00:23:16] Speaker B: You win. [00:23:16] Speaker E: You know, make chicken. [00:23:19] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:23:19] Speaker E: That was fire. [00:23:22] Speaker B: It was. [00:23:22] Speaker D: It was big. [00:23:22] Speaker E: I just smothered some chicken at least twice. [00:23:26] Speaker C: Do you want. You want her to go home? Most times. [00:23:29] Speaker E: Listen here. Okay. [00:23:30] Speaker C: Okay. [00:23:30] Speaker E: She don't have nobody else, all right? [00:23:32] Speaker C: And I respect. [00:23:32] Speaker E: I'm trying to teach you the game. Goes about, you know, building her roster. She's not listening, so I just. [00:23:37] Speaker D: Yikes. [00:23:38] Speaker E: You know? [00:23:39] Speaker C: Okay. [00:23:40] Speaker D: No. This is the time of the year, though. Like, it's getting cold. It's cold outside. [00:23:44] Speaker C: She younger, Bri. [00:23:45] Speaker A: Yeah, she is. [00:23:46] Speaker C: Okay. [00:23:46] Speaker E: You know. [00:23:47] Speaker A: Is she a deuce in the quarter? [00:23:49] Speaker E: No. [00:23:52] Speaker B: I don't even get in a quantum. I don't even know anything. [00:23:55] Speaker C: Tell her. Dye her hair red. She'll be all right. [00:23:58] Speaker B: I don't know. [00:23:59] Speaker E: This little bit. [00:24:00] Speaker C: It's a lot. It's exhausting. Everyone. [00:24:03] Speaker A: You don't. [00:24:04] Speaker D: Okay. [00:24:04] Speaker E: I ain't gonna put this part in there, so it don't even matter. [00:24:08] Speaker C: You messy. Don't do that. [00:24:10] Speaker E: Yeah. Why wouldn't she? [00:24:13] Speaker D: Because I actually said, how many times does the whole girl you used to live with? I was like, no. [00:24:20] Speaker A: The bag. [00:24:21] Speaker D: Exactly. [00:24:22] Speaker E: You're like, no. Around the corner. I'm like, no. [00:24:23] Speaker D: Across the street with a green car. [00:24:25] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:24:26] Speaker D: Basically the blue rug in the front. [00:24:28] Speaker E: Don't get me wrong, I love her. I love her to death. She's like. She's like my middle sister that I don't like. So she's kind of replacing that. Yeah, but it's like, at. Sometimes it's just like, don't call me. I don't. [00:24:39] Speaker D: Oh, wow. [00:24:39] Speaker C: Is she invasive? [00:24:41] Speaker E: No, she's not invasive. It's just. Oh, Bri, I'm coming over to smoke cougar. Dang. [00:24:45] Speaker C: I wanted to smoke my own. I just got home. I just want to sit in my own space. I understand it, like, today she was. [00:24:52] Speaker E: Just like, oh, I gotta give you some tea. I'm like, I'm not in the mood for the tea. I'm not in the mood. [00:24:57] Speaker B: I'm actually on water today. [00:24:59] Speaker E: Yeah, it's giving very much. So. Room temp. Yeah, room temp water. But, yeah, I don't know. People be calling me. My parents still don't know where I live. [00:25:10] Speaker B: Not you. Secretive, very. [00:25:12] Speaker E: What? My mother will pop up and she about to start working down the street. Absolutely not. [00:25:17] Speaker B: I will pass. [00:25:18] Speaker D: You need to let your parents know where you live at, Bridge. [00:25:20] Speaker E: My dad knows where I live. [00:25:21] Speaker D: Okay. As long as one of them is a difference. No, no, that's fair. That's fair. As long as somebody knows that if you go missing, they know where to go find you. [00:25:29] Speaker E: My cousin know where I live at. [00:25:30] Speaker D: I mean that. No, no, cousins don't count because cousins be all off. [00:25:34] Speaker E: Cause my cousin, she engaged and all of that. [00:25:36] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:25:37] Speaker D: No, no, but her fucking off. [00:25:41] Speaker B: Immediate circle. Know where I live at? [00:25:43] Speaker E: I don't know. I'm living this very, like, secluded. Very. [00:25:48] Speaker B: Ain't nothing wrong with that. [00:25:49] Speaker E: I don't mind it. I do miss you guys, though. [00:25:52] Speaker B: I miss y'. All. [00:25:52] Speaker D: Miss you. [00:25:53] Speaker B: Listen, I could. I was so excited about doing this pod today. I was like, yes. [00:25:57] Speaker E: Yeah, me too. [00:25:58] Speaker B: I'm happy to be back. Took my little hiatus. [00:26:00] Speaker E: I'm like, damn, Tony don't even live like 15 minutes away. So now I gotta catch the train. But luckily my cousin picked me up. [00:26:07] Speaker B: Yeah, Tony, my best friend, we be over here. He come over here on a regular basis. That's what y' all didn't know. [00:26:11] Speaker E: That shit's crazy. [00:26:13] Speaker B: I'm lying. [00:26:14] Speaker E: I live all the way downtown. You Tony? [00:26:16] Speaker D: Yikes. Tay. [00:26:19] Speaker C: I'm cool. I'm back in school. [00:26:21] Speaker D: Yeah, yeah. [00:26:22] Speaker A: You notice your hair is red? What made you get red hair? [00:26:27] Speaker C: I have had red hair. Red hair don't care multiple times in my life. It's just a great time. [00:26:33] Speaker A: I've been fuck niggas. [00:26:34] Speaker C: Oh, yeah. It's always gonna be that. But red is just such a vibrant color. [00:26:38] Speaker B: I like this thing. This is different. [00:26:42] Speaker C: It is different. It just sparks, like, some energy in me that I need it. Y', all, I have been feeling better. I'm just working on some art. [00:26:51] Speaker D: Okay. [00:26:51] Speaker A: Yay. [00:26:52] Speaker C: Bri have been talking, but this is between us. Where we drop it when we need to. [00:26:55] Speaker D: Like art in a sense of inside secrets and. [00:26:59] Speaker A: Hold on. Did y' all read the contract right? [00:27:01] Speaker D: What? [00:27:01] Speaker B: They did not. [00:27:02] Speaker C: We in a different contra. [00:27:04] Speaker D: Clause 16A clearly states. [00:27:08] Speaker C: So I do graphics, typography. And so Bri, who is amazing with quotes, we're working on, like, kind of bringing it together and kind of like dropping them. You know how people put different quotes and people share it. We're working on that. [00:27:21] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:27:22] Speaker A: Artistic, visual to the quote. [00:27:24] Speaker C: This is. Yeah, this is Bree's idea. First of all. We're going to go with that. No, this is just for social media. [00:27:30] Speaker B: Oh, okay. [00:27:31] Speaker A: I'd probably make his way. [00:27:33] Speaker C: Brie says some amazing. She does. So it needs to go on something. [00:27:38] Speaker D: Okay. [00:27:39] Speaker C: I want her to get out that bubble. I know she's secretive and quiet into herself. She's a Virgo, guys. [00:27:47] Speaker D: So what does that mean? [00:27:49] Speaker C: Virgos. Yes. [00:27:53] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:27:53] Speaker B: That's my baby sister. [00:27:54] Speaker D: I feel like. [00:27:55] Speaker A: That's right. [00:27:56] Speaker D: I feel like anybody can be anything any day of the week. [00:27:59] Speaker A: Yeah, that's true. [00:27:59] Speaker D: But I feel like anybody can have the characteristics of any trait any day of the week. I don't. I don't like that. [00:28:07] Speaker C: I know you don't. But I do think that people are true to some of those traits when it comes to that. But to each his own. I. I can't. I just. I have a sister who shares that sign with her in there the same way. So. I understand a little bit. But. [00:28:23] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:28:24] Speaker A: How are you emotionally? I know we had some conversations. [00:28:28] Speaker C: A lot better. I feel a little bit more free. It's been given, like, I don't give a. And I'm a person who. Who typically cares a lot. I care about the things that need caring. [00:28:38] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:28:39] Speaker B: Okay. [00:28:39] Speaker C: But other than that, I'm just a little bit more free. [00:28:42] Speaker B: Okay. That's what it is. [00:28:43] Speaker C: So I'm okay, guys. I'm back. [00:28:46] Speaker D: Good job. Good job, Good job. [00:28:49] Speaker B: I'm good, bro. I'm happy. I ain't even gonna lie. [00:28:54] Speaker A: Did you get a shape up for this part? [00:28:56] Speaker B: I got a haircut yesterday. I'M happy. Like, I'm happy in my relationship, you know, normal ups and downs, but that's a relationship. But I'm happy in my relationship. We have been focusing on house, so we've been doing a lot of that. Got a new dog. [00:29:18] Speaker A: What's his name? [00:29:19] Speaker B: Oh, that's Patterson. So I got Jersey and then Patterson. I'm from Patterson, New Jersey. So, boom. Play on words. [00:29:25] Speaker A: He's corny. [00:29:26] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:29:27] Speaker A: What you want to call it? [00:29:28] Speaker B: My man Pat upstairs, he chilling, doing his thing. He got a nickname. [00:29:31] Speaker D: Pat. [00:29:31] Speaker B: Yeah, I'm. [00:29:32] Speaker A: I'm. [00:29:32] Speaker B: I'm. I'm good, bro. Like, I'm genuinely about to have Atlantic. [00:29:36] Speaker D: City in his right. [00:29:39] Speaker A: So do you call Jersey. Like, would you. You call them new, or you just say Jersey? [00:29:42] Speaker B: I just call them Jersey. [00:29:43] Speaker A: Okay. [00:29:44] Speaker B: And then Pat Patterson is. We call it. [00:29:46] Speaker A: Who's your favorite between the two kids? [00:29:48] Speaker B: Be honest with you. I chose a favorite, and it's Patterson. [00:29:51] Speaker A: You figured that much. [00:29:52] Speaker D: Yo, you just got that dog. [00:29:53] Speaker B: I love him. [00:29:54] Speaker D: How is he your favorite? [00:29:55] Speaker A: He don't bite. [00:29:56] Speaker D: Ankles one. [00:29:57] Speaker B: He doesn't bite. What people don't know about jerseys? Jersey is unruly. [00:30:01] Speaker D: Who don't know that? I got marks to prove, you know, like. But I, you know, that bit this out. [00:30:09] Speaker B: Leah didn't to want. Want Jersey. Let's start there. It was my idea. We got Jersey, and then you would pick them. She allowed me to have a second dog, you know, I mean, but he's a. He's a big dog. He's an American bully. So, you know, I wanted a dog like that, but initially, she was like, I don't want anything in this house that could eat me, but she allowed me to have a dog. [00:30:30] Speaker D: Get out. [00:30:35] Speaker A: Double entendre. [00:30:36] Speaker B: That guy, bro. [00:30:37] Speaker D: That's what's up. [00:30:38] Speaker B: Funny as I love him, he got a lot of personality. But other than that, I'm. I'm good, man. I'm. I'm dope right now. [00:30:45] Speaker A: How about you, Reese? [00:30:46] Speaker D: Oh, man, I'm great, bro. Like, I'm in such a good place, man. [00:30:54] Speaker B: Just tell everybody you him right now. [00:30:56] Speaker D: Nah, I don't even know what this man talking about. [00:30:59] Speaker B: He him. [00:30:59] Speaker D: I'm. I'm enjoying life, yo. Life is good. Keeping everything up top. It's all I don't have. Every day is a good day. Even when it's not. [00:31:09] Speaker B: That boy. That boy modest as hell. Every day. [00:31:12] Speaker D: Good day. [00:31:13] Speaker A: Yo, what happened? [00:31:13] Speaker D: Even when it's not. I don't know what he talking about. [00:31:16] Speaker B: We not gonna. We not gonna discuss what the whole. You Know the new, the new job joint. [00:31:22] Speaker A: Oh, yeah, yeah. We did that on the last. [00:31:26] Speaker D: So you wasn't here. Oh, yeah. [00:31:27] Speaker A: The last part was us then. [00:31:28] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:31:29] Speaker D: I got, was 1, 2, and 3. I got a new, I got a new gig. I'm still, I still got the old gig. I just added to the old gig. I got another, A second gig with the old gig. I got the lead bartender position over at the Raven Stadium. And they sweets, huh? In the black wing suites. [00:31:46] Speaker B: See why I said him, man? Listen, but he's so humble. [00:31:50] Speaker C: Congratulations. [00:31:51] Speaker D: It's all up top, yo. It's all top. Yo, bro, I get, man, I be watching, so I ain't gonna say a lot, but. [00:32:00] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. [00:32:01] Speaker D: Ye. Bro, I look, I got a check the other day. I worked two days. The numbers on this check was. [00:32:10] Speaker A: I was like, wait, what you thought they up? [00:32:14] Speaker B: No, this at all? [00:32:16] Speaker D: Is this right? Like, yeah, no, that's right. I'm like, oh, let me know when you need two more days. [00:32:24] Speaker A: This called me. I think they got the, this, this your check? This the wrong. [00:32:28] Speaker D: I need y' all to do a background check on these. They selling drugs. They playing like this. They got bricks somewhere. Got bricks. Yeah, bro. It's been up top, man. This is life's, bro, I've been working a lot. That's the only part. If I, if I could complain, I can't even complain, man. Like, it's a good thing to be able to work a lot. You show me, like, right, family good. The holidays were great. Everybody got, Everybody got almost everything. They wanted it. You know what I'm saying? Like, I can't. I said I can't complain, yo. I really can't complain. I, I literally, I got that I haven't touched yet. You know what I'm saying? Like, I get over there eventually. You feel me? Like, I'm still playing with these toys over here, bro. [00:33:15] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah, yeah. [00:33:16] Speaker D: So it's. Yeah, man. This. [00:33:18] Speaker A: Ah, well, congratulations. [00:33:20] Speaker C: Congratulations. [00:33:21] Speaker D: Thank you. Thank you. Oh, yo, everybody in this room, you should invest in the Amazon Echo show. All right? [00:33:29] Speaker B: The thing for the house. [00:33:30] Speaker D: Yeah. Think about the Amazon Echo. Then they have what they call an Echo Show. They come in different sizes from the 5 inch pause, from a 5 inch up to a 21 inch. [00:33:44] Speaker A: That's pretty big. Yeah. [00:33:48] Speaker D: Ain't no goddamn way weird, but yeah. No, I, I, I put the 21 inch in the, in the kitchen. [00:33:55] Speaker A: You put the 21 inch in there? Oh, God damn. [00:33:59] Speaker D: The 21 inch Echo Show. [00:34:01] Speaker A: That's what you call it? [00:34:04] Speaker D: It's up in the kitchen. I. I got one I got to put upstairs. I didn't even open the box yet. This mother do everything. I literally. It. Ah, bro. It know me when I walk in the house. Hello, Maurice. [00:34:16] Speaker A: Not the government. Is it a British accent? [00:34:19] Speaker D: You can choose the accent, you can sell however you want it to sound. And, like, you can actually go in there and change the syllable. So, like, if they're not saying your name right, you can go in and tweak the syllables to make your sound right. [00:34:31] Speaker C: Oh, yeah, I would need that. I would need that. [00:34:34] Speaker D: Definitely would. [00:34:35] Speaker A: No matter. [00:34:36] Speaker B: No matter who got. They got my number and they phoned. But, yeah, calling Kion. [00:34:41] Speaker A: Even when I try to use, like, the AI voices, when I. Like the. When I do the videos with the little British voice, right? [00:34:47] Speaker D: They say K. You got to spell a name wrong. [00:34:53] Speaker B: Say Keon. [00:34:54] Speaker D: Yeah, you gotta spell it. [00:34:55] Speaker C: I want to know what it says. [00:34:57] Speaker D: Like, hey, Tone, what's up with you? [00:35:04] Speaker A: I'm good, man. Just recently moved. I'm having a reset moment right now, which I think I needed this. [00:35:12] Speaker D: Clap it up for the reset. [00:35:15] Speaker A: I started therapy, which was interesting. [00:35:18] Speaker E: Good. [00:35:20] Speaker A: Felt like I was talking. Talking too much. [00:35:22] Speaker D: Nah, it's never too much. [00:35:24] Speaker A: She was like, no, no, you're doing great. [00:35:27] Speaker D: Listen, the more you talk, unless they have to. [00:35:29] Speaker A: Yeah. So, yeah, it was cool. I think I'm gonna stick with this one because they say you should, like, date your therapist in the sense of, like, finding different therapists. But she seemed cool. She gave me some shit to think about. Mostly I'm just trying to sit still right now. I feel that I had a broken my car the other day. [00:35:50] Speaker D: Yo, them took out. Them ain't breaking his car. They removed window. The window. They removed it. They didn't break it. Okay. They took the whole window out and removed this car. I've never seen that before. Even. [00:36:05] Speaker A: Even the. When the crime investigator got this, she said the same. She. I ain't never seen. [00:36:09] Speaker D: No, I ain't never seen that. Like, yo, they took the whole window pane out the car. [00:36:13] Speaker A: I literally could have probably used that window. Yeah. [00:36:17] Speaker D: I was just like. Like, yo, you know what good thieves, like. Like, no, if you could get an award for stealing, yeah, they would win that because they took. And then they didn't even. They took it out and laid it down. [00:36:34] Speaker A: And the crazy part is I thought to myself, like, yo, they must have had some time with that, bruh. They, like, they had to take time because, like, you sacrificing the sound for the time yes. Because if you hit it, then it's like it's going to set the alarm off. That part I was like. [00:36:49] Speaker B: Like you was chilling that whole time and nobody, nobody in where you was at even realized that it was happening. [00:36:57] Speaker D: Yo, that's a terrible feeling, though. [00:36:59] Speaker A: To come outside. [00:37:01] Speaker D: Yeah, to come outside and see your window land in the grass. [00:37:04] Speaker A: I mean, honestly, I'm not laughing. No, no, no, no, it's cool. It's like. Because now I. I really felt like I went against my gut because I really wasn't going to go out, but you feel me? It was like, well, I'm gonna go. You know what I'm saying? And it's like, come outside. I was like, yeah. I knew I should have just stayed. [00:37:25] Speaker B: You know, when that happened to me too. [00:37:26] Speaker A: Right? [00:37:28] Speaker B: I'm in. I'm in New York, right? I'm at my cousin house, my cousin Tiny. [00:37:32] Speaker A: So shout out to Tiny. [00:37:33] Speaker B: Yeah, shout out to Tiny. [00:37:34] Speaker A: He was good in Friday. [00:37:36] Speaker D: She's a girl, six foot six. [00:37:40] Speaker B: So I go to her house house. I'm in New York. I come from down here. Go to New York, shoot over there, right? At the time I had a charger, so all my windows is tenant, so I parked. I found a park on her block, which took me circling around the block probably like seven times, but nonetheless find a parking spot. I wound up staying the night and was preparing to leave to go home the next day. Right now, at the time, the 10 on my car is probably like 5%, give or take. I'm walking to my car and I can see inside of my car and I was like, maybe the sun is just shining brighter than normal. I knew better, but I'm trying to give myself. Like, maybe as I keep walking to my car, they bust the window out. But, you know, the glass didn't shatter because of the tent. So the window was just in the car, right? These niggas took a prepaid cell phone and change. [00:38:40] Speaker C: Yeah, shout out to New York because. [00:38:44] Speaker B: I found a place that could replace the window that that same morning. [00:38:47] Speaker A: What the you about to do with change in New York? [00:38:49] Speaker B: I don't know. That morning I found a tent place. I'm driving home with 1, 2, 3, 4 tenant windows and the sun coming in through the back window. [00:39:01] Speaker A: Yo, that's literally like how I'm driving now. Like, I keep looking back because I keep thinking my window, like the window down. [00:39:08] Speaker D: So you got the window replaced? [00:39:09] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah, I gotta fix this morning. [00:39:11] Speaker D: Because the tent's not on there. [00:39:12] Speaker A: Yeah, I'm gonna go put the tent on it Saturday. [00:39:13] Speaker D: Okay, so that was crazy about that when it happened to you. It reminded me the reason I got cameras around my house would provoke me to go get the cameras. I got off of work one night, you know, I get home, 4:30 in the morning, I get in the shower and I'm in the shower. It was a. I will never forget this. It was a Tuesday night, like Wednesday morning. [00:39:34] Speaker A: Right? Right. [00:39:34] Speaker D: And I'm in the shower and I remember what day it was because it was a trash day. And I got a window in my bathroom and I keep it open when I'm in the shower, let the steam out because I take really, really hot showers. And so I'm in the shower and I hit glass break, right? I was like the. Was that. Whatever, Here it again. I was like, man, one of these deers and got my trash, right? That was my thought, right? So whatever. The next morning I go outside every house on my block. Cars, windows smashed, Amsterdam. All right? Every house except mine. Because I left my door unlocked. [00:40:15] Speaker C: They was like, we going in this. [00:40:18] Speaker A: And my was excited. [00:40:21] Speaker C: We ain't got break this. [00:40:23] Speaker A: You can save him some money. His insurance won't go up. [00:40:28] Speaker B: Shout out to being irresponsible and not locking your doors. Hey, yo. [00:40:33] Speaker D: Know the craziest part about it is because I actually said yo. Okay, so let me give you the full context. The wildness of it was. The wildness of it was. It's the one night I left my wallet in the car, which I never do. All right? And then my daughter, because you're talking about changes. What made me think about it. Well, you should and change. Chloe used to the kid's grandmother or their great grandmother, my wife's grandmother, mother, she would always give my kids Ziploc bags full of change, right? And I mean big ass zip. Like the gallon size freezer bags full of change, right? So Chloe saved a bunch of them and we had opened up her bank account. Chloe, yo, that little girl got bands. She don't spend her money. [00:41:18] Speaker B: She got you. [00:41:19] Speaker D: Right, exactly. So after she opened the account, she wanted to put all of her change in it. And now bank we, the credit union we use, they have a change machine in the bank. All you do is take the change and dump it in and it deposits it right into your account. [00:41:32] Speaker A: Okay. [00:41:33] Speaker D: So we was going to take it up there and. But the. The bank had closed early for something. Like it closes early one day a week. And that was the one day it closed early. And I didn't know. So I left the Change in the car, man. These took my wallet. They dumped everything out the wallet. They. They dumped everything out the glove box. And they took her change from out of my arm restaurant. [00:41:55] Speaker B: No, they. [00:41:55] Speaker D: Listen, they didn't take nothing out. They actually. Because I didn't have. I didn't keep no cat. I literally keep a 20 bill in my wallet, but it's folded in the tuck of my wallet. So, like, you wouldn't even know it was there. Yeah. Unless you know it's there. So. But they. They like dump. Like, they. They dumped my wallet, left everything all over the floor. The glove box, components, everything all over the floor. And then the armrests, all of the napkins and. Cause I keep glasses, wipes, and napkins inside my armrest breast. Right. And I got a little tool, like, if you ever get stuck, you can cut this, cut the seat belt, or break the window with it or whatever. That's the only thing that's in my armrest. [00:42:32] Speaker A: Right. [00:42:33] Speaker D: Okay. So all of that was out, and then the change was gone. And it was like I had to come out my pocket, like, another 3, 400, because it was like a lot. It was like a couple hundred dollars change. Yeah. And she was so heartbroken. [00:42:46] Speaker A: Yo, I was broken, too. [00:42:47] Speaker D: But they caught the. [00:42:48] Speaker C: They caught the. [00:42:49] Speaker D: At Tom's. [00:42:52] Speaker C: Not only Tom. [00:42:55] Speaker B: Here you go. [00:43:01] Speaker D: And I lied. He did take one of my credit cards on. I don't know why he only took one, but he took one and tried to use it at Tom. [00:43:08] Speaker B: A responsible teeth. [00:43:10] Speaker C: He said, I'm only going to use one of these. [00:43:13] Speaker D: Ain't make me work too hard. [00:43:15] Speaker B: I'm gonna look out for him. [00:43:17] Speaker A: Yo, you think it was a conversation like, yo, should we break this one? One just to make it look like the rest of them. [00:43:22] Speaker C: Let's just open this. [00:43:23] Speaker D: Nah, man. [00:43:24] Speaker A: Let's save him a couple dollars. [00:43:25] Speaker D: I came outside where everybody is outside like, oh, oh. Everybody's going like. Everybody's like, oh, my God. [00:43:31] Speaker B: I'm like, what the. [00:43:32] Speaker D: Everybody tripping. My windows ain't broke. I was like, oh, I left my door unlocked. Got me. They got me. [00:43:40] Speaker B: I've done that. [00:43:41] Speaker A: I'm just grateful I was able to replace it. [00:43:43] Speaker D: No, that's what's up. [00:43:44] Speaker B: That's the bless. [00:43:45] Speaker D: Really. What's up? [00:43:46] Speaker B: So up that you work hard for? [00:43:48] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:43:48] Speaker D: And that's the. [00:43:49] Speaker B: You got to look at the blessing like, well, at least I had the money to be. To replace it. No, I shouldn't be putting that predicament to where I got it. But the upside is that you were financially able to do such. But all you. [00:44:03] Speaker D: Yeah, yeah. Up outside right now. [00:44:05] Speaker A: Yeah, absolutely. [00:44:06] Speaker D: I hate a thief, yo. [00:44:07] Speaker B: Sell drugs and get a job. [00:44:09] Speaker D: I hate a thief, y'. [00:44:10] Speaker E: All. [00:44:10] Speaker A: I hate a thief as well. [00:44:11] Speaker D: I hate a thief. Thief. And I hate. I hate an able bodied begging me for something. All right, like, this was at the gas station today. This had on like super Tims. Like, you know, the super Tims, but they was like brand new. All right, like, he had on some brand new super Tims. An essential. [00:44:31] Speaker A: Yeah, Go. [00:44:33] Speaker D: Essential sweatshirt. [00:44:34] Speaker B: Go. [00:44:34] Speaker D: And a Montclair jacket. Then they could open the door for me. [00:44:38] Speaker C: Me. [00:44:38] Speaker D: And like, when you come out, you think you got some change. I said, no, I don't. I don't. You want a job referral? Like, that's what I got for you. It's a job referral. [00:44:51] Speaker A: Yo, speaking of wild, right? We going to get where he going. [00:44:54] Speaker B: I'm scared. [00:44:56] Speaker D: Liquor break. No. [00:44:57] Speaker A: Yeah. Pull me up something too. Why you up? Pee break. [00:45:01] Speaker D: But anyway, him coming and leaving. [00:45:06] Speaker A: The. With the swishies. [00:45:09] Speaker D: The swisher. Sweats. Smoking the swisher. [00:45:11] Speaker A: Sweet. So. So I'm not sure if you. You familiar with, like, streamers? [00:45:19] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:45:20] Speaker A: So I found this to be interesting. Y' all familiar with Dochi? [00:45:25] Speaker C: Yes. [00:45:26] Speaker A: I. I don't know if you like her music. It's not for me. I think she's. I think she's very. I think she's got talent. Talent. It's just the music subject is just not for me. [00:45:35] Speaker D: I don't like her, you know. [00:45:37] Speaker A: You mean you don't like her music? [00:45:38] Speaker D: I don't like her music. I don't know her. [00:45:41] Speaker C: I've grown to like her music. I've listened. [00:45:43] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:45:44] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:45:44] Speaker D: I mean, I can honestly say I didn't give it like a fair shake. I heard like one or two songs. [00:45:51] Speaker A: I listened to the album. It's cool. I mean, like I said, I think she's very talented. I think anybody that can, you know, use their talent and, you know, use that to work for themselves. Yeah, you got to have some talent in some sort of way. [00:46:05] Speaker D: I feel that. [00:46:05] Speaker A: But I think. Yeah, let me get. Let me get a. Let me get a orange chicken. Listen, but what I don't like, though, is people who like, I understand we're gonna have critics, right. But it's a difference from having a critique versus you just coming after person. So. Yeah, Aiden Ross had some things to say about Dolce, I guess because she come from that TDE camp. And the whole situation with Drake and Kendrick provoked that And Glasses Malone, I'm not sure if you're familiar with his music. He stood up for in a way that some people would say is idiotic, because he was like, you know, I'll take it there with you. Like, I have no issue. Take. Yeah, I have no issue with taking there. So then the question for me was, how do we. Can you separate the art from the person without disrespecting the person? Like, can you critique the art? Because I know people are very sensitive about that. God damn. [00:47:13] Speaker C: I'm gonna let Reese go because he sound like he's about to say some shit, because I have a whole nother perspective on that. [00:47:20] Speaker A: Go ahead. [00:47:21] Speaker D: So. I don't have any problem with anybody because I feel like this. Right. If you're the artist and you present your art to the world, then you present yourself to be critiqued. All right? You, like, you literally say, here's my product, here's my art. Do with it. It what you will have. Have at it, hoss. All right. [00:47:46] Speaker B: Like, you open yourself up. [00:47:47] Speaker D: You open yourself up to it right now. 97.3 of the time. I feel like that. But there's something about this Aiden Ross. [00:47:58] Speaker C: Thank you. [00:47:58] Speaker D: All right. It's something about him specifically and the way, like, I don't got a problem. If you ain't a fan of her music, say that. Yo, her music sucked. Whatever. Whatever. When he start calling her all these different. No, that part. Part. The aggression and emotion that he put behind it. That's where my problem is. All right. Because I feel like people like him act the way they act because they ain't never been punched in the mouth. [00:48:23] Speaker C: Absolutely. [00:48:24] Speaker A: Exactly. [00:48:25] Speaker B: He's a riding type of. Type of. You see the. That he did with Puka Nakua? [00:48:30] Speaker D: I just want to punch him in the mouth. [00:48:31] Speaker B: Had him throwing up. [00:48:33] Speaker C: Yes. [00:48:34] Speaker B: Anti Semitic sign. And Puka Nakua didn't even know what the it was, and he had him do it, and he got a lot of. [00:48:42] Speaker D: That's Pooka Nicole dumbass fault. [00:48:43] Speaker B: It is, but it's not. [00:48:45] Speaker D: No, it is because he's an adult. [00:48:46] Speaker E: But. [00:48:46] Speaker B: But hear me out, though, Reese. It's like, all right, I. I'm on your platform for whatever reason that it is that I'm on your platform. [00:48:54] Speaker D: Yeah. [00:48:54] Speaker B: I would like to think that you are at least a good human being, and you wouldn't have me do something that's out the way is. Is so naive. It's naive. [00:49:07] Speaker A: I see. I see. I see. See. I see both of y' all points, but I think I'm leaning to more. More with Reese because in my mind, if you ask me what this mean, that's my next. [00:49:16] Speaker D: That's my first and foremost why you. [00:49:17] Speaker B: Don'T think like that. You got a point. [00:49:19] Speaker A: That's. And that's why I said it's his. [00:49:20] Speaker D: Fault for not thinking like that because he's an adult. [00:49:22] Speaker A: Right. [00:49:22] Speaker D: All right, So I, I don't give, I don't give the naive grace to adults. [00:49:26] Speaker C: Okay. [00:49:27] Speaker A: All right. [00:49:27] Speaker D: I don't in any situation. And I'm like this across the board. All right. At the point when you are a multi millionaire individual, okay, you are outside performing for the world and you know that everything you say and do is going to be taken and, and, and, and broken down and dissected and diced up. It's gonna be chopped and screwed. And if you say the right wrong, you're gonna be canceled and it's going to impact you financially. [00:49:54] Speaker A: Yes. [00:49:54] Speaker D: All right. So with the, the very first thing you should be doing is hiring a. That's going to tell you the right wrong shit to not say and do. Right. All right. That's number one. [00:50:02] Speaker B: That's all right. [00:50:03] Speaker D: The number two, before you go on anybody's platform, you want to know who they are. [00:50:09] Speaker C: You got to do research and the. [00:50:10] Speaker D: They about and what you about to walk into. Yeah, but if you don't. [00:50:14] Speaker B: But Aiden's never presented itself as a, as a racist mother. [00:50:18] Speaker D: No, but he been a boy fan. [00:50:19] Speaker A: Yeah, he been. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. [00:50:21] Speaker B: He never presented himself as being. [00:50:23] Speaker D: He has. [00:50:23] Speaker A: A racist. [00:50:24] Speaker D: But he has, though. That's why he got canceled off of Twitch. [00:50:27] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:50:28] Speaker A: Oh, yeah, yeah, I remember that. Yeah, yeah, that is. Yeah, yeah, you're right. [00:50:32] Speaker D: That's why he got canceled. [00:50:33] Speaker A: That is why. Yeah. [00:50:34] Speaker C: That's why he got going further than this. This is past a critique because I can understand that. Every artist has an audience, right? This is when we allow that particular person in the culture. Because he had black people allowing him to disrespect a black woman, which I won't stand for, that was, that was beyond a critique. I don't like a lot of stuff that a lot of people put out. But for him specifically to be saying this, this, this, and nobody checked him. Glenn. [00:51:03] Speaker A: No, it was even so Glasses Malone. [00:51:06] Speaker C: He better be lucky. That's the only person that like kind of came up. [00:51:09] Speaker A: Crazy part is he was doing this in front of black and then that was. [00:51:12] Speaker C: That's what I'm saying. But this is. We've always been disrespected in front of black men, though. [00:51:17] Speaker B: And that's what makes them this and that's what make them boys as well. Because why are you allowing that from a. [00:51:22] Speaker C: The most person in America is a black woman. [00:51:27] Speaker A: That's fair. [00:51:27] Speaker D: I don't know. I've always stood on that. Y' all at the bottom of the totem pole. [00:51:31] Speaker C: I'm so strong on this because we allow people to laugh and Kiki, but we the first people to save everybody. It's exhausting. [00:51:38] Speaker A: It's very exhausting. [00:51:39] Speaker C: I don't have to like nothing nobody do, but I don't have to disrespect a black woman and her craft. [00:51:44] Speaker D: Right. [00:51:44] Speaker C: You don't have to respect what. Because my. You ain't my audience. [00:51:47] Speaker A: Right. How about, like, I don't like sexy red music, but I've never said, like. [00:51:51] Speaker C: Oh, yeah, I'm tired of it. The way he went in on Dolce, that's crazy. [00:51:55] Speaker A: And you know what's crazy? [00:51:56] Speaker B: He though he. [00:51:59] Speaker A: He does always go. [00:52:00] Speaker C: Everybody's lit and them was laughing. [00:52:02] Speaker A: I believe. Well, one. I also believe he thought he. She would be the weakest person to come after within that. That camp. [00:52:09] Speaker B: And did you hear her. Her reply? [00:52:11] Speaker A: Yeah, absolutely. Yeah, yeah, yeah. [00:52:14] Speaker B: She spanked that. [00:52:17] Speaker A: No, she. I mean, she replied without replying in a sense. [00:52:20] Speaker B: And then she put scissor on the hook. [00:52:21] Speaker C: Yeah, it was good. [00:52:23] Speaker A: That's a good song. [00:52:24] Speaker C: Sounds good. [00:52:25] Speaker B: You're rapping, bro. [00:52:26] Speaker E: Whistle was nice. [00:52:27] Speaker C: It was good. [00:52:28] Speaker A: But ultimately, I think, like you said, it's like we have to stop allowing. I think we've been able to get to a point where we don't need assistance from certain people in life. [00:52:42] Speaker C: Yes. [00:52:43] Speaker A: You get what I'm saying. And I don't. I also don't get why some of us senator continue to run to certain platforms. You get what I'm saying? Like, right? Like I said, even with. When he was talking about the black dude that was dead, I'm like, yo, he not. He even said like, jokingly, like, oh, don't talk about my black queen like that. And he was like, man, that. [00:53:02] Speaker C: And he laughed about. Very usual. But this is the usual suspects that we allow in the culture to come and do this culture vulture and allow them to talk about the culture. They have nothing and they're always influenced by us, but we the worst people in the world. [00:53:17] Speaker D: No, it's the same like, like, like the. The. The. The group of dudes who let the white dudes say is what I'm saying. Like, yeah, nah, no, watch your mouth. [00:53:31] Speaker B: He hasn't been hitting his mouth because the. That been hitting his mouth. Don't know. [00:53:35] Speaker A: So that's part. That was the part that was the. I guess you would say the. The. [00:53:43] Speaker B: The. [00:53:43] Speaker A: The. The controversy within what Glasses Malone was doing. Right. Because Glasses was like, yo, I will get violent with you. And then. And his response was like, oh, you want to go to jail? Like, it's like, certain people do not give a. [00:53:56] Speaker D: About going to jail. [00:54:01] Speaker A: And that's what I think. But that's what I think they don't understand. Like, just be like, okay, and I'm speaking from. And this is a little off topic, but it's on topic. Aiden is coming from a space of privilege. Whether it's just. From just him being white in general or him being white and having money. He's coming from a space of privilege. [00:54:20] Speaker B: Correct. [00:54:21] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying? You don't understand, like, we. Or some of these people, most of these people who are in this culture, most of the black people in this culture, this has saved their lives. [00:54:31] Speaker D: Right. [00:54:31] Speaker A: Not only just their lives, but their family lives is giving their children other choices. [00:54:36] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:54:36] Speaker A: It's allowed people to explore, see the world. It's taking them out of whatever community that they were in that they potentially could have died in, and it's giving them a perspective of life that's completely different than they ever thought they would ever reach. Right. So that's why we take it to heart. So it's like, yes, when you disrespect. We will take it there because this saved my life. And I want to allow you to come in here and disrespect this just because you was able to have food in your food every night. You lived in the nice gated community and all that other. You get what I'm saying? [00:55:06] Speaker C: Yeah. This streaming. Dangerous, though. [00:55:08] Speaker B: Can I ask you a question? [00:55:09] Speaker D: Question. [00:55:09] Speaker A: And that's going into the next topic. Go ahead. [00:55:11] Speaker B: And this is for everybody that, you know, clearly, we all employed. [00:55:14] Speaker D: Right. [00:55:15] Speaker B: And. [00:55:16] Speaker D: And I sell drugs, not playing. [00:55:19] Speaker B: When is it? [00:55:20] Speaker A: I don't know him. [00:55:21] Speaker B: When do you. When do you say, this isn't the appropriate time to address this because you care about your career? Because. All right, so I'm gonna give you a prime example. [00:55:34] Speaker A: Right? [00:55:35] Speaker B: And it's happened. I'm in a barbershop. Another barber in there. Client comes in there. It's early in the morning. He says out his mouth. [00:55:46] Speaker A: Mouth. [00:55:46] Speaker B: He says, yeah, it's awfully quiet in here. Normally. It sounds like a Tyler Perry movie. [00:55:54] Speaker D: And I said, was he white of Course, that's hilarious. [00:55:58] Speaker B: Of course he was. [00:55:59] Speaker D: That's actually funny, though, said Barbara. [00:56:03] Speaker B: I didn't want to affect his money, so I shut up. Because, Tony, no, Reese knows if you've been around me, you know me, I really don't do too well with biting my tongue, and I don't see nothing wrong with most that I say. Right? But it was like, for the sake of his money, Imma shut the up. And I'm not gonna say what the. I really want to say because it's gonna. It's not gonna come out. It's gonna come out right to me, but he's gonna be scared. [00:56:28] Speaker D: So. [00:56:29] Speaker B: So I don't say. So are there times where you don't say? [00:56:32] Speaker D: Well, my reply to that would have. [00:56:33] Speaker A: Been like, what you mean by that? [00:56:38] Speaker D: My question is, what did you want to say? [00:56:40] Speaker C: Huh? [00:56:40] Speaker D: What did you want to say that you didn't say literally? [00:56:44] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah. [00:56:45] Speaker B: You mean by that. But I didn't say that. [00:56:47] Speaker D: Okay. No, no, no, that's fair. That's fair. [00:56:50] Speaker A: We need to work on your communication. [00:56:51] Speaker D: So. So. So. So here's my thing, right? I want to. Here's my thing, right? Why does that offend you? [00:56:58] Speaker B: Because you're. [00:57:00] Speaker D: I'm just asking. He said. He said normally sound like a Tyler perfect Perry movie here right now. Tyler Perry didn't make Barbershop, but they have like. [00:57:07] Speaker B: Yeah, you. [00:57:08] Speaker D: You exploitation films about barbershops. [00:57:11] Speaker B: You indirectly said it in referring to blacks. And I know what you meant because this wasn't his first inappropriate and. [00:57:22] Speaker A: Or. [00:57:24] Speaker B: Out the way that he said at his mouth. I bite my tongue because that's not my client. Had that been my client, like my Caucasian clients, Mexican Puerto Ric and so on and so forth. They know how I operate. So certain they know they not gonna say while they sitting in my chair said, barber is not that boisterous like me. [00:57:45] Speaker D: No, I get that. It's just. So he. [00:57:48] Speaker A: I mean, he might have not been offended either. [00:57:50] Speaker D: Right? So that was so. [00:57:51] Speaker B: So he was. Because when he left out, he said, what the was that? And I was like, you tell me. [00:57:57] Speaker D: So my thing is. And. And so my thing with that is. And like, I did. I deal with this a lot at work. I'm a bartender, and I work in an establishment where anybody can be in there any day of the week. White, yellow, black, purple. [00:58:09] Speaker B: So do you bite your tongue? [00:58:11] Speaker D: No, I don't bite my tongue. I. I have a lot of tack. Like, I. I reply very tactfully. [00:58:18] Speaker A: Yeah, it's ways. It's ways. [00:58:20] Speaker B: So and that's something that, that I may need to learn because I'm not very. [00:58:24] Speaker A: One of my favorite things to say. Well, what you mean by that? [00:58:26] Speaker C: I'm always saying, what do you mean by that? I work and I do that every day. I don't want to say biting my tongue, but for the sake of my livelihood, there are times where I may not respond because I feel like it's rage beating. They want you to say certain things. And for me, in the space that I'm in, that I am in and I'm the only black woman, I'm just not going to do it. [00:58:47] Speaker B: Like, I can't fire it from my job. [00:58:49] Speaker C: Right. And I understand it. I understand. [00:58:50] Speaker B: And I can really speak my mind. [00:58:52] Speaker C: I just think that it's a way to respond. It's a way too. [00:58:55] Speaker D: So that's my point. [00:58:56] Speaker C: I can be in those spaces. I've caught myself being a little pace of aggressive, but they can't. They. They don't know any better. They just like, okay. [00:59:04] Speaker B: And that's something that I need to work on because I'm not very tactful with words. My should say. Say what's on your mind. Like, bop. Here you go. [00:59:12] Speaker A: Well, see me, it's a level of. [00:59:13] Speaker C: Restraint, I think for me, I'm just like, you know what? [00:59:17] Speaker B: It's either say nothing. [00:59:19] Speaker C: I'm going home at the end of that. [00:59:20] Speaker D: Yeah, my thing is. My thing is you gotta like that don't move me. You know what I'm saying? Like, yeah, like you say, oh normally sound like Tyler Perry movie head. Like, I would literally been like, yep. And you're the token white guy. You know what I'm saying? Like, that would have been my response would have been that, you know what I'm saying? Because things only got the power that you give it. Like words only let. Words literally only mean what you let it mean. You know what I'm saying? I've been called it. I. I grew up in a town where the KKK marches. [00:59:52] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:59:53] Speaker D: You know what I'm saying? Like, I, like, in a very literal sense, I've been called a in five different languages. You know what I'm saying? That, bro, you gotta like my family, my money, my freedom. That. That moves me. You see what I'm saying? You. Whatever words come out your mouth. [01:00:10] Speaker A: So for me, I. My experience with this was. Was when I was in my training and I remember one. One person came to me and he was like, yeah, man, you know, you're not like the other ones, you know, you know you easy to talk to. I said, well, don't get it twisted, though. I said, just because I'm not angry or appear angry, it doesn't mean I'm not standing with that. Everything over there that they talking about, I. I agree with it, but I'm just not as bolsterous in the sense of, like, direct. You know what I'm saying? Like you said, like, for me, if something said, it's like, well, what do you mean by that? And then I'll let you kind of get yourself in a trick bag. Right? And then it's like, then I'm. Then I'm dropping, you know, jewels and. But I'm not just direct with, like. I guess you would say I don't come off aggressive. [01:00:55] Speaker C: That particular demographic is only. They do that in front of us. Because there are a lot of us who laugh and kiki with them to make them feel comfortable, to be disrespectful. Because it is blatant disrespect. [01:01:08] Speaker A: I think. So this is what I think. I think that those particular black people are just tired of being angry. [01:01:19] Speaker C: Cool, Go ahead. [01:01:21] Speaker A: So it's like. And I'm not trying to. [01:01:23] Speaker C: I'm on my doctor. [01:01:23] Speaker A: No, no, no, listen, I feel you. [01:01:27] Speaker C: Are still an N word. [01:01:30] Speaker A: No, I feel you. I like. And that's. [01:01:32] Speaker D: That's hilarious. I'm sorry. [01:01:34] Speaker A: No, no, no. But I mean, she's absolutely correct. But for me, trying to come from a space and understand, like, bro, why are you supporting that? Or why are you in that space where you think that's kind of comfortable in my mind, is either you tired of being angry or you just have a different proximity. Right. There we go. [01:01:53] Speaker C: If I want to be in pr, because this is why I do not believe in. [01:01:56] Speaker A: Gilbert Arenas is a perfect example of this. [01:01:58] Speaker C: I don't believe in POC because everyone who is people of color, because there are brown people and other people of other ethnicities that do not stand with black people. And I think that there are a lot of people of color who want to be in proximity. I'm gonna say it with white people. [01:02:19] Speaker A: Absolutely. [01:02:19] Speaker C: So I'm gonna go along and I'm gonna kiki and I'm gonna laugh about the jokes about the ghetto black single mother narrative or food stamps or anything to that magnitude. And there are a lot of shucking and driving going on in corporate America. So they're gonna tap dance on the stairs for these white people. They can be picked. [01:02:39] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:02:39] Speaker C: And that right there is a difference between a house and a field. [01:02:43] Speaker D: Yeah. [01:02:43] Speaker A: I mean, at the end of the day, too, it's like, wow, that's just. [01:02:46] Speaker C: On one today, y'. All. I'm sorry. [01:02:47] Speaker A: No, no, no, you don't have to apologize. I'm not mad at you at all. [01:02:51] Speaker C: I'm so tired of it. I work in it. I've. I've. I've grown around it. And I'm at the point where I told you earlier, the fuck up, up. And stop laughing at these jokes because it's not funny. So that. That Aiden did that is not funny at all. [01:03:06] Speaker A: But I told you, I told you earlier, I said the problem, the biggest problem in all this has always been media. [01:03:11] Speaker C: Absolutely. [01:03:12] Speaker A: Because what happens is if you don't like proximity again, if you don't grow up around certain people, and all you see is what you see on the media. That's how you think they are. So it's like, like a lot of times when I'm on Tick Tock and I come across, like, these racial debates, I see that the perspective is always, like, a hood who blames the white man. And I'm thinking, like, yo, I've actually never met any hood that blame white people. I know they know that there's a system that keep their foot on their neck, right? But they necessarily don't blame them for where they at. It's like, it's harder, but I can make my own moves and try to, you know, come up. But I'm like, you only see this. Like, that's a small percentage of the black community. Yeah, most black people are middle class. Like, that's like, y' all take this one small percent and you make it. [01:04:00] Speaker C: And you run with it. [01:04:01] Speaker A: Everybody, right? You know, say, even the, the, the, the what they call those, like, the, the relationship debates. When they were like, well, she wanted to date Pookie in the hood, and now I'm a nine to five. I'm like, yo, that's not all. Like, you just a clown. That's all it was. You were just a clown. [01:04:16] Speaker D: Yeah. So it's like, like, yeah, I feel y'. [01:04:19] Speaker C: All. [01:04:19] Speaker A: I, I. [01:04:20] Speaker D: And I hear y' all all of that. Like, yo, go outside and wave the flag. That just don't b. Like, bro, words don't bother me, man. Like, words don't. I, I. And my thing is when I see, like, when, when I. When I hear white people, I, I got a white lady in my job, old white lady who, like, thinks it's okay to tell, like, black jokes and like, that, that, like, yo, I want you to do that. I want you to stand outside, stand on your stage, and tell all of your jokes so everybody can see you, right? I want you to expose who you really are. I want everybody to see exactly who you are in the most comfortable way that you think is possible. Because I don't got to kill you. You gonna kill yourself. [01:05:03] Speaker C: Kill yourself. [01:05:04] Speaker D: You know what I'm saying? And that's where I'm at with it. Like, I. Yo, I'm gonna give you all of the rope, and then when it's time to. I'm just gonna. [01:05:09] Speaker C: I'm gonna let you hang yourself. [01:05:11] Speaker D: You know what I'm saying? Like, and that's. That's literally what happened with this lady at my job. Like, she. All of these. These. All of these little racial jokes left and right, left and right. Her favorite one is, why black? Why are black people so tall? Because they're Negroes. This funny, right? [01:05:29] Speaker C: She work at your bar? [01:05:30] Speaker D: No, not in my bar. [01:05:32] Speaker C: I'mma come in there. [01:05:33] Speaker D: But. But. [01:05:34] Speaker B: But I will push her down. [01:05:36] Speaker D: Me and Keon coming in. [01:05:39] Speaker B: Metal stairs. [01:05:40] Speaker D: So speaking of them, that happened the other night. That happened the other night. But hold on, hold on. Before I get into that. Let me, let me, let me. But fast forward, a situation happened, and she went to another white girl in the DMS and was like, yeah, I can't believe they letting these monkeys and these thugs, blah, blah, blah, blah. And the white girl was at my house. I had to cook out. She was at my house at the cookout. [01:06:06] Speaker C: She. [01:06:07] Speaker D: Oh, man. Did she. She showed it, screenshot it, and sent it to everybody. So we took the boop straight to HR with, hey, listen, all of them jokes that we've been telling y' all about, y' all been saying, oh, they just jokes. They not just jokes. You know what I'm saying? [01:06:21] Speaker A: They never. [01:06:22] Speaker D: Just go ahead, give them all the rope they want, man. [01:06:24] Speaker C: Reese, that's terrible. [01:06:26] Speaker D: Listen, that don't bother. That don't move me. [01:06:29] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:06:29] Speaker D: You know what I'm saying? Like, that really don't move me. Like, it just don't now. Make my family feel uncomfortable. Then you move me. Make my children feel uncomfortable. [01:06:39] Speaker A: Fuck with my money. [01:06:40] Speaker D: Fuck with my money. There they go. Put my freedom on the line. You see what I'm saying? My family, my money, my freedom. Those are the only three things that move me, yo. My family, my money, my family, finances. Freedom, the triple Fs. Yeah. [01:06:51] Speaker A: That's the only thing that should move. I like that. [01:06:53] Speaker D: That's the only thing that moves me. Yo, and, you know, time and age and shit. Get. Get you here. You know what I'm saying? Because I used to be. Be like, oh, no, man. These like, nah, nah. But then now. Yeah, no, if it ain't about those. [01:07:07] Speaker C: No, respect it. [01:07:08] Speaker A: Yeah, me too. [01:07:09] Speaker C: That's why I'm gonna stand up. [01:07:10] Speaker A: And you said something earlier about streamers. Not. Or not streamers, but particular people not being punched in the face. And ironically, Aiden was on a stream with one of his other fellow streamers in New York and somebody shot in the car. [01:07:27] Speaker D: Yeah, I saw that. Yeah. What's his name? Kevo Cavo? [01:07:31] Speaker A: I think so. [01:07:31] Speaker D: Something like that. [01:07:32] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah. And they shot. [01:07:33] Speaker D: Yeah. [01:07:33] Speaker C: You see when he got hit, that getting dangerous. Cause y' all think this a game. Streaming has become dangerous. And. Yeah, this is real life for people. Like, you can't get on no Internet and say all that. Cause gonna really want to see you in person. [01:07:46] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah, absolutely. [01:07:47] Speaker C: This isn't a game. I know. It's a game for the little white kids that want to get on there and act like you feel me. Like, they hard. But the police can't save you when they not there. [01:07:55] Speaker A: So. And that's. And that was the point what Glasses was trying to make with him. He was like, bro, I don't care about going to jail. [01:08:01] Speaker C: I'm gonna be out. [01:08:02] Speaker A: Yeah, I don't. I don't. Even if, like, from my understanding, Glasses is very tapped in with the gang culture on that side. So it's. It hardly wouldn't even be him to touch. Him to touch. To touch you. You know what I'm saying? Like, it probably wouldn't even be. It's probably be some young trying to get some stripes and do what it. Do. You get what I'm saying? But you see what happened. Your boy. You get what I'm saying? Because what. To me. What. What was it? What they. I think trolling created rage bait. That. To me, trolling created rage bait. That's fair because. Yeah, that's. [01:08:36] Speaker B: That. That's. [01:08:37] Speaker A: Yeah, because it grew into that. That's fair because first it was just trolling. [01:08:40] Speaker D: Yeah. [01:08:41] Speaker A: And then eventually it just started turning. [01:08:43] Speaker D: Into some other like. Yeah, no, we just want to see you react. We want to get the reaction from you. [01:08:47] Speaker A: And then now it turned into, like. Now I'm gonna say some crazy stuff on this live stream and I'm gonna just. [01:08:51] Speaker C: You see what this. [01:08:52] Speaker A: And I mean that. You know what I'm saying? And that's what I was trying to explain to somebody before, you know, somebody that used to be Here, shout out to him, though, like, yo, you gotta understand on the Internet will believe. Like, whatever you portray yourself. It's very true as that. You get what I'm saying? Like, because we see it all the time. And it's like this. That would happen to Shorty is a perfect example of that. Yeah, like, he was probably talking crazy. Crazy. And it could have been some jealousy too, but for the most part, them talk crazy on the street. [01:09:22] Speaker C: Crazy stuff. [01:09:25] Speaker D: The strain where they ran up and ran up and the was upstairs and it's like. Like a. Like a bando or something. They was in and they was up. They was cooking up and upstairs or something. And the white boy went to the door. They tried to rob the white boy and then he ran up the steps and started that. [01:09:42] Speaker A: That is real, bro. Like. [01:09:44] Speaker D: Like now my favorite be when the be like in grocery stores with people and then somebody really get with them. Yeah, that'd be my favorite. I love. [01:09:53] Speaker C: Why y' all bothering these, like, man. [01:09:55] Speaker D: People be stressed out. Food, groceries. [01:09:59] Speaker B: I'm in here trying to figure out what I can pay for. [01:10:01] Speaker D: I know what, bro. [01:10:04] Speaker A: Have y' all seen the one way to do. You be with your girl. Like, the guy be with his girl and then he come up. [01:10:10] Speaker C: That shit's dangerous. [01:10:12] Speaker A: Grab like, the bottle for her and then hand her the bottom. Like, yo, what's your name? I mean, the women always look like, you know what I'm saying? Which I don't know who you blame, him or her. [01:10:20] Speaker C: That's what get somebody killed. [01:10:22] Speaker A: Ain't nobody really stepped to bro, yet. Like, one dude was like. He was like, can I get your number? And she was like, you're not going to do nothing. He was like. He was like, boyfriend. Yeah, yeah. [01:10:32] Speaker D: He like. [01:10:34] Speaker A: I was like, this. [01:10:38] Speaker D: Cool. Yeah, right? [01:10:40] Speaker A: That was crazy. Yeah. [01:10:42] Speaker D: Like, sorry, I, I, I'll. That go out dangerous. [01:10:45] Speaker A: You know, a few years ago, a. A white boy got pop killed for with some. He went to like, a gang neighborhood and say some crazy. [01:10:53] Speaker D: Say it again. Yeah. [01:10:55] Speaker A: Oh, yeah. Unalived. He got unalived going into the like, some hood and lifting his shirt up like he was really about to do some. [01:11:03] Speaker C: This is real life. Please do not reenact or. Once you did, you did, you will go to me. [01:11:12] Speaker A: Exactly. [01:11:14] Speaker B: Max Dunham. [01:11:15] Speaker A: That part. [01:11:17] Speaker B: Yeah. It's wild, though. [01:11:18] Speaker A: Speaking of Dunham, I see they fired your coach, man. [01:11:22] Speaker C: I got. I have two perspectives. [01:11:27] Speaker D: Shout out to hard. [01:11:28] Speaker A: I think this is the beginning of the end. [01:11:30] Speaker D: Thank you. [01:11:30] Speaker C: Thank you. It's been that long? [01:11:32] Speaker D: 18 of them bro, but listen, listen, listen. [01:11:36] Speaker A: Yeah, no, 18. [01:11:37] Speaker D: 18 years, bro. [01:11:39] Speaker A: When he came. [01:11:39] Speaker D: Bro. [01:11:39] Speaker C: What? [01:11:40] Speaker D: Oh, bro, he. 18. What is. No, no, no, no, no, no, no. He came in Billicheck left in 06. Yeah, something like that. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. It's like 06. 07. Yeah, man. So. So here's my thing with Harbs, right? Shout out to Harbaugh. You know, he. We got a Super Bowl. I don't give him all of the credit for that super bowl because he came into a well put together team. [01:12:10] Speaker C: Yes. [01:12:10] Speaker D: All right. He came into a team with three hall of Famers and a whole. Three first ballot hall of Famers and a whole lot of late ballot hall of Famers. [01:12:20] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:12:20] Speaker D: All right. I give. What's my boy? Ozzy. I give Ozzy all of the credit for that. All right. GM Ozzie Newsom was the GM at the time. He put together the team. Harbaugh was a special teams coach who. They gave a head coaching position to Harbaugh. The best thing Harbaugh did was put the right people around him. [01:12:40] Speaker A: Right? [01:12:41] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:12:41] Speaker D: All right. His decision making wasn't always the best. And we see it. We've seen it the last three to four seasons. I personally feel like Lamar Jackson saved his job. I thought Harbaugh was on his way out a couple years ago. [01:12:57] Speaker C: I was about to say a couple. [01:12:58] Speaker D: Yeah, he was on his way out a couple years years ago, and then he decided to bench Flacco and put Lamar in and that turned things around for him. That's my personal thing. I don't. I don't have any. [01:13:11] Speaker A: Oh, no. [01:13:12] Speaker B: Go. [01:13:12] Speaker C: No, you got. [01:13:13] Speaker B: You know what he good at? He's good at choosing a. A offensive coordinator. [01:13:20] Speaker D: That's why I said the best thing he did was put the right people around. Yeah, no, he put the right people around. That's the best thing he did. [01:13:24] Speaker B: He does not, not make good game. [01:13:27] Speaker D: No, not at all. [01:13:28] Speaker C: No, not at all at all. [01:13:30] Speaker B: So if. [01:13:32] Speaker A: If. [01:13:33] Speaker B: If they're. If, if. All right, Miami head coach who's on his way out the. [01:13:40] Speaker D: He's gone. [01:13:40] Speaker A: Yeah, he got fired, too. He got. [01:13:41] Speaker D: He got fired day one. [01:13:43] Speaker B: Their quarterback has at least 1200 concussions. [01:13:51] Speaker D: No, Lamar's 13D is. [01:13:59] Speaker B: Is like, like 5 to 600 different plays because he's a running quarterback. [01:14:04] Speaker D: Yeah. [01:14:05] Speaker B: Harbaugh was not a good running quarterback. Coach. [01:14:09] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:14:10] Speaker B: Like you said, to your point, you stepped into a position to where everybody was already. They knew their assignment. They knew the job. [01:14:17] Speaker A: Job. [01:14:17] Speaker B: Hence the, The Super Bowl. You haven't made it Past the first round and God knows how long. [01:14:23] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:14:24] Speaker B: And Thomas and the Steelers. Tony. [01:14:30] Speaker A: Y' all playing. [01:14:31] Speaker C: It doesn't matter. [01:14:32] Speaker A: Let me check your school. [01:14:33] Speaker D: Y' all got one game left. [01:14:36] Speaker A: We playing right now. [01:14:38] Speaker B: He knows how to make happen with the bear man animal. Which makes him a better coach. Will harbor get another job? [01:14:46] Speaker E: 100. [01:14:46] Speaker D: 100. [01:14:47] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:14:48] Speaker D: He 100 gonna land on his feet. [01:14:49] Speaker B: He gonna get a job. [01:14:50] Speaker D: Yeah, we got rid of him. Somebody else be at the league in three years. [01:14:57] Speaker A: Yeah, we. [01:14:58] Speaker B: We have the option now. [01:15:00] Speaker A: I thought he was done. Because I did. I mean, the room I saw. [01:15:04] Speaker B: You believe that? [01:15:05] Speaker D: Yeah. No, no, no, no. Listen. He's the most sought after, so that must have been. [01:15:08] Speaker A: That must have been a rumor. [01:15:09] Speaker D: He's the most sought after. He's literally the most sought after coach right now. [01:15:14] Speaker C: What's that? Who was. Who was Kansas City coach and he was with. He was with the Eagles. [01:15:19] Speaker D: Yeah. [01:15:20] Speaker C: He gonna pull one of those. He looks like Harb's gonna pull one of them. [01:15:23] Speaker D: You think so he gonna go somewhere else. [01:15:24] Speaker C: Go somewhere and then win a chip. I'm in agreeance to what Keon said, but I also saw a lot of carelessness on the field this year. It's head coach, too. Thank you. [01:15:37] Speaker E: He is calling the shots. [01:15:38] Speaker C: Yes, but he ain't on that field. [01:15:41] Speaker A: So that was. So that's my question. Like. Like that. That was essentially what I was trying to get to. My question was, how much of it is it on the coach and how much of it is it on the player? [01:15:51] Speaker C: You making shitty decisions. [01:15:53] Speaker A: Say it again. [01:15:54] Speaker B: 60, 40? [01:15:55] Speaker D: No, it's not, bro. It's 90. [01:15:56] Speaker C: 10. [01:15:57] Speaker D: I'm a. Yeah, 9010, bro. [01:15:59] Speaker B: 9090 who? [01:16:00] Speaker D: Wait, 90 to the coach is 90 10. [01:16:04] Speaker C: If they don't trust the. [01:16:06] Speaker D: If they don't trust that coach is going to make a good decision, they going to go out there and do whatever the. [01:16:11] Speaker A: But listen, let me ask you this. [01:16:13] Speaker B: Explain fumbles and. [01:16:14] Speaker A: Hold on, hold on. Let me ask you this. [01:16:16] Speaker B: You have to do your job. Hold on, hold on. [01:16:20] Speaker A: Mike Tomlin is the Ravens coach. Is that a different Ravens team? [01:16:23] Speaker D: Yes. [01:16:24] Speaker C: Yes. Mike makes decisions that. [01:16:27] Speaker D: Yeah, Mike makes decisions. Yeah, hold on. [01:16:30] Speaker A: I'm here to him. [01:16:32] Speaker D: So is that a different team? [01:16:36] Speaker A: Meaning like do y'. All. Do y' all go to the chip? Do y' all win more? Cuz to me, Mike don't have the talent, so. [01:16:41] Speaker D: No, Mike do. He. Mike. [01:16:45] Speaker A: Right. Which is why we have winning seasons, but we haven't won a chip. [01:16:47] Speaker D: Mike has the same problem that Har ball has Mike. Mike don't have an offensive mind. Mike is a defensive guy. [01:16:54] Speaker A: That's true. I give you that. [01:16:55] Speaker D: Mike don't have an offensive mind. [01:16:57] Speaker A: Line. [01:16:58] Speaker D: We are. Our strengths lie on our offense. All right. And they did not spend the money in the right place. We need a better offensive line. [01:17:09] Speaker C: Yes. [01:17:09] Speaker A: Absolutely. [01:17:10] Speaker D: It don't matter how good Lamar is. It don't matter how good Derrick Henry is if the five in front of them can't stop the five other getting to him. [01:17:19] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:17:20] Speaker D: It don't mean. [01:17:20] Speaker C: It don't even matter. [01:17:21] Speaker D: You could throw the ball 75 yards if you can't get the bid. Oftentimes it don't matter how far you can throw it. It don't matter what your past accuracy. It's the reason why the Patriots were so good for so long. [01:17:32] Speaker C: It's true. [01:17:33] Speaker D: All right. Because they spent 37% of their salary cap on their offensive line. That's why they were so good for his last night. It's why Tom Brady played till he was 42y. You see what I'm saying? I think that Tomlinson. I think that Mike Tomlin is a good coach. He has had a winning record every year. [01:17:57] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:17:57] Speaker D: All right. He hasn't always made the playoffs because he plays in a very tough division. He plays. It ain't even a tough division. He plays in the suck ass division. All of the teams suck. [01:18:07] Speaker C: Yes. [01:18:07] Speaker A: All right. [01:18:08] Speaker D: And it's just. Who sucks the least in our division? That's what. That's what it comes down to. [01:18:13] Speaker B: I don't want nobody that sucked the least. [01:18:14] Speaker C: This was a crazy season though. [01:18:16] Speaker D: Yeah. No. [01:18:17] Speaker A: This season. This season. [01:18:18] Speaker C: Absolutely a crazy season. [01:18:20] Speaker D: I don't. I. I think that. I think that the entire front office needs to go. All right. I think that for the Ravens. I think the entire front office needs to go. I think that every. I think that every single person that be up in that booth that be right behind my bar. [01:18:37] Speaker A: Should we be talking about this? But you at the. [01:18:39] Speaker D: I know. Right? [01:18:40] Speaker A: No. [01:18:41] Speaker D: Them literally be my bar right here. Them be right there. [01:18:45] Speaker A: So you think we should be fine? [01:18:46] Speaker E: Huh? [01:18:48] Speaker D: How about you? But yeah. [01:18:52] Speaker C: We need new. [01:18:53] Speaker D: Yeah. We need new. [01:18:54] Speaker C: We need new. [01:18:54] Speaker D: We need new. And it's not that they bad. I just think that they became too reliant on one dynamic of offense. [01:19:03] Speaker A: And it showed when he got hurt and it got. [01:19:06] Speaker D: They got exposed. [01:19:07] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:19:08] Speaker D: So I think we need some young minds with some innovation. I actually like like Mike McDaniels. I like him because the boy got ideas. And I just don't think He's a good head coach. I think he should be an offensive coordinator. I do. [01:19:21] Speaker C: I've seen that take. [01:19:22] Speaker D: Yeah, I do. I think. That's what I think. [01:19:24] Speaker B: But, you know, all the majority of of Har Ball's OCs become head coaches. [01:19:30] Speaker D: Yeah. [01:19:30] Speaker C: No, no, no. [01:19:30] Speaker B: Because he's good at choosing. He like the Yoda of that. [01:19:33] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:19:34] Speaker B: With ocs. But it's. [01:19:37] Speaker A: I'm. I'm. [01:19:38] Speaker B: I'm happy for the. For the change that may come. [01:19:42] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:19:42] Speaker A: This whole is a good one. [01:19:44] Speaker B: I mean, we. [01:19:45] Speaker A: We. [01:19:45] Speaker C: Shut up, Tony. [01:19:46] Speaker A: No, cuz, usually with regime change, it could be a hit on this. [01:19:49] Speaker D: It can be a true story. [01:19:51] Speaker A: It could be a true story. [01:19:51] Speaker D: True story. [01:19:52] Speaker A: Cuz sometimes you might not gel with the coach, and that's. [01:19:55] Speaker C: That's my biggest thing with the Ravens. [01:19:57] Speaker A: I'm. [01:19:58] Speaker C: I'm. I'm concerned about that part. [01:20:00] Speaker D: Yeah. [01:20:02] Speaker C: Them gelling as a team with that coach, but we. No more careless mistakes, y'. All. [01:20:07] Speaker A: I don't know why y' all didn't run that. [01:20:09] Speaker C: This is getting out of hand. [01:20:11] Speaker D: Let me tell y' all something. Let me tell y' all something. On Sundays, I don't. If I don't have to work, I don't get out the bed. On Sundays, I watch football, and I got a 75 inch television in my bedroom. I watch and I got a double pillow top. California King. I don't get out my bed. [01:20:25] Speaker B: You getting money? [01:20:27] Speaker A: Yeah. His cheapest watch is a Patek. [01:20:30] Speaker D: Cheapest watch is this Versace I'm wearing right now. [01:20:35] Speaker B: My watch came from the Tik Tok. [01:20:39] Speaker D: So. So, no, but it's my favorite watch, though. It's my favorite watch, though. How about that? [01:20:44] Speaker C: Humble. [01:20:45] Speaker E: Tell us anything. [01:20:46] Speaker D: I'm not. I'm not lying to you. I wear this watch a lot. I work in this watch because it's my favorite watch. [01:20:51] Speaker B: I don't work on Versace. [01:20:54] Speaker C: What you working, Ken? [01:20:57] Speaker D: I was in the bed. I was in the bed watching this game, right? I was in the bed watching the game, and me and my wife, we land in the bed watching the game. And Lamar took a knee and called a timeout. I got out the bed and I turned around, looked at the wall. My wife said, babe, what you doing? I said, baby, that kid is about to miss this kick and I can't watch it. I knew that. I'm telling you, I wish she was in here because I look at her. Her. I said, baby, that kid is about to miss this kick and I can't watch it. She was like, why would you say that? [01:21:30] Speaker C: I said, just look, can I say something? [01:21:32] Speaker E: Cuz I had the same. I had the same feeling. [01:21:35] Speaker A: Well, I already knew he was going to miss. Cuz we missed. [01:21:37] Speaker E: I'm watching the game and I'm like this. [01:21:41] Speaker A: I knew he was going miss. [01:21:42] Speaker D: You know why I knew. You know why I knew he was going to miss that kick? [01:21:45] Speaker E: Stomach like. [01:21:46] Speaker D: You know why I knew he was going to miss that kick, Bri? Because at. After we scored the previous touchdown, he kicked the. Out of bounds. [01:21:53] Speaker E: Yep. [01:21:54] Speaker D: You get a free kick to these. Not running. They not moving until the ball lands you. All you had to do was kick the straight and you kicked it out of bounds. I said, he can't handle this pressure. [01:22:09] Speaker C: Nope. [01:22:09] Speaker D: He's never been in this type of pressure before. [01:22:13] Speaker B: Rookie quarterback, game on the line. You put him. [01:22:16] Speaker A: You mean rookie kicker. [01:22:18] Speaker B: Working kickers. [01:22:19] Speaker D: Yeah, so. And that's why I got. [01:22:20] Speaker A: I can give you. [01:22:21] Speaker D: Because he should have never been in that position for me. [01:22:23] Speaker A: For me. Why I said he was going to miss is because when they moved further right. [01:22:28] Speaker D: Yeah. [01:22:29] Speaker A: I was like, yo, we just missed going right. Why would y' all move further right? Yeah, when that happened, I was like, he gonna miss. [01:22:37] Speaker D: Nah, Listen, you had 12 seconds on the clock with it. With a timeout. [01:22:41] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:22:41] Speaker D: You could have shot. [01:22:42] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:22:42] Speaker D: Even if. Even. Even if you don't. If you scared to throw the ball. You worried about the turnover? Get a ball to Derrick Henry. Henry and tell him to run straight. [01:22:48] Speaker B: Yeah, do this. All right, that works. [01:22:50] Speaker D: Just tell him. Just run straight. Just wanted to fall up in the middle. Just running. No, don't. Don't do none of that. Run straight and get as far as you can. Running straight at the. At the least, we'll be where we're at. [01:23:07] Speaker B: He called the time out. [01:23:09] Speaker D: Yo, he took the knee and called the timeout. [01:23:11] Speaker A: But we. [01:23:11] Speaker B: We had like 10 seconds on the court. On the court. [01:23:14] Speaker D: It was 12 seconds on the clock. [01:23:16] Speaker B: And then you waited till it got down to what, 1, 1, 1 to say time out. [01:23:20] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:23:21] Speaker D: I mean, no, he did that on purpose. He did it. He did that on purpose. He did it on purpose. [01:23:25] Speaker B: You put your faith in a. In. In a rookie who knows nothing about pressure. [01:23:31] Speaker C: They said, we better not even catch you outside in p. [01:23:40] Speaker A: Hey, make sure the Bluetooth not connected. [01:23:42] Speaker D: Oh, like, bro, I just solo this position. [01:23:45] Speaker A: You better walk. Watch your feats. Reese has got to take a potty break, y'. [01:23:52] Speaker B: All. [01:23:52] Speaker D: No, no, I got to take this call. [01:23:53] Speaker A: Same difference. [01:23:55] Speaker B: Not potty and phone call the same. [01:23:57] Speaker A: They both begin With a P. They both be. [01:24:00] Speaker C: Nonetheless. He's given us 18 years, so. [01:24:03] Speaker D: Yeah. [01:24:03] Speaker A: Know. [01:24:04] Speaker D: And he gave way. [01:24:05] Speaker C: Take that. I was about to say to take it, but time for. We need new. [01:24:09] Speaker A: Yes. Speaking of new. [01:24:10] Speaker C: We need new. [01:24:13] Speaker A: Did y' all see that the Scots are getting a divorce? [01:24:15] Speaker E: I have. [01:24:17] Speaker A: Do you know who the Scott talk he on? [01:24:19] Speaker B: No. [01:24:19] Speaker A: Okay. So the Scots was this couple that. They been together since they were 14. [01:24:25] Speaker B: Okay. [01:24:26] Speaker A: I believe he's a chef. And what did she do? [01:24:29] Speaker E: I think she discontent. [01:24:30] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:24:30] Speaker A: So she. She got popping before Hood. He got popping. [01:24:34] Speaker B: Okay. [01:24:34] Speaker A: What she would do is like little antics. Like. Like little, you know, like annoying wife. [01:24:39] Speaker D: Right. [01:24:40] Speaker A: In a sense. [01:24:40] Speaker B: Right, right. [01:24:41] Speaker A: Annoying her husband. And eventually she helped him kind of bring his. I guess you would say his food content to the full, to the. To the forefront. So recently he cheated. They separated. Separated. He cheated. [01:25:01] Speaker B: Is that cheating? [01:25:02] Speaker A: When the marriage. It would be. Yeah. Because it's not a divorce. I think it would be. [01:25:08] Speaker B: It is by. By law. It is a. [01:25:14] Speaker A: So. [01:25:15] Speaker D: Excuse me, do you mind sitting in rest of this call. [01:25:19] Speaker A: We gotta sub out. [01:25:20] Speaker D: I gotta step out. I gotta step out. [01:25:22] Speaker A: I'm sorry. No, go ahead. Do your thing, bro. [01:25:25] Speaker D: Unmute that mic for you. [01:25:26] Speaker A: Yeah, hit the. The orange button. [01:25:28] Speaker B: You good? [01:25:28] Speaker D: Yeah, I'm good. [01:25:30] Speaker B: Okay. [01:25:34] Speaker A: All right, all right, all right. You can explain. [01:25:38] Speaker D: Yeah. [01:25:38] Speaker B: All right, that's cool. [01:25:39] Speaker A: The orange button right here. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. [01:25:41] Speaker D: Corner. First corner. [01:25:42] Speaker A: Oh, no. Yeah. [01:25:46] Speaker D: I said top left corner. He did. I didn't hear that. [01:25:50] Speaker B: God damn it, Brie. [01:25:51] Speaker A: But everybody shout out to Brie. Reset the. Tend to some business. [01:26:00] Speaker E: Don't make me feel awkward. [01:26:01] Speaker A: Guys don't feel awkward. You've been with us for a year and a half. All right? [01:26:07] Speaker B: They were separated. [01:26:09] Speaker D: He. [01:26:09] Speaker A: He got him some schmoing. [01:26:11] Speaker D: Yeah. [01:26:11] Speaker A: You know what I'm saying? [01:26:12] Speaker B: That sounds like penis, but. So we're not gonna go. [01:26:14] Speaker A: Yeah, you're right. That did not spoil young. He got him some Uchiwali. [01:26:18] Speaker D: Yo. [01:26:18] Speaker B: There we go. [01:26:19] Speaker C: I know what he got. [01:26:20] Speaker A: He might have got some spoiling. He might be the spring Ying type. [01:26:25] Speaker B: Yeah. You never know. [01:26:27] Speaker A: But anyway, I guess he went and told her, you know, and she filed for a divorce. And it's been like, up in his comments about his infidelity. But my question to you is, how do you handle, like, do you think you can be responsible when handling them, that type of thing in the sense of like, I'm not gonna hold you. They're a good looking couple, right? He's a handsome dude. She is absolutely gorgeous. [01:26:57] Speaker D: Okay. [01:26:57] Speaker A: She's beautiful. [01:26:59] Speaker E: I just, Same thing I'm, I'm saying on my perspective. [01:27:02] Speaker A: Yeah, no, no, no. Yeah. She's, she's, she's co. [01:27:04] Speaker B: Signing it, right? [01:27:06] Speaker A: So stamping it. I guarantee you that there are options within their dms, you know, because some people don't care that you married. How does, how does one navigate through that? I mean, I don't, I don't got money. You got fame. I don't look good. [01:27:24] Speaker B: I don't that, none of that, I don't think none of that matters when. [01:27:29] Speaker C: You. [01:27:32] Speaker B: Wholeheartedly love the person that you want with. [01:27:35] Speaker A: Right? [01:27:35] Speaker B: It don't got nothing to do with money. It don't have nothing to do with fame. It don't got nothing to do with all of the, the superficial things that, you know that the world presents. [01:27:47] Speaker A: Right. [01:27:48] Speaker B: It comes a time and a man or a woman, and I'm gonna speak for both at right this second. But you, you, you just gotta know, like, it, you know, not that I'm settling, I'm not settling, but this person loves me, understands me, cares for me. They just my person. So, like, that word didn't make much. [01:28:14] Speaker A: Sense to me because I guarantee you, in her, in her DMs, it was, that was probably doing way better than he was. [01:28:21] Speaker B: Yeah. Like, bro, like I, I was a person that didn't always do right in my relationships. [01:28:27] Speaker A: Right. [01:28:29] Speaker B: And it took trial and error for me to be like, you know what? Leah is my person. [01:28:35] Speaker A: Right? [01:28:36] Speaker B: Do I still get on her nerve? 110. I'm Aggie, as I know that, but she knows that. And it makes more sense for me to say, you know what? It don't get no better than this. Not that I'm settling, but it, it don't get no better than this. [01:28:54] Speaker A: Right? [01:28:54] Speaker B: This person genuinely loves me, they care about me. My well being, I, My money doesn't mean anything to her, and she may make more money than me and she don't give a. About what I need to feel safe. I need to be care for care, forward up and hold up to you into the bargain. [01:29:19] Speaker A: Right? [01:29:20] Speaker B: Whatever that bargain is that y' all set up, right? [01:29:22] Speaker A: I mean, so I feel you. [01:29:24] Speaker B: So, so the cheating part on his aspect, I, I, I, I equate it to. You think it's something better out there. That's why you did it. I've been married before, bro. [01:29:37] Speaker A: Yeah. No, but I could see his perspective on that because he'd been with this person since he was 14. So what, what he's Never had anything else. [01:29:45] Speaker B: So. What? [01:29:46] Speaker A: No, I get you. I'm not. I'm not. I'm not. You're not advocating. Yeah, I'm not advocating for his actions, but I'm saying is, I could understand why he may have stepped into a different space at some point once they separated. But at the same time, I'm wondering, like, how do you handle that type of pressure? [01:30:05] Speaker C: I think we all have a choice. [01:30:07] Speaker A: We do. [01:30:07] Speaker C: So we all have a choice. And as someone who was with their childhood sweetheart up until I would say, like, my early 20s, 20s, my child's father, I think that you have a choice in what you choose to indulge in. I'm sorry. [01:30:28] Speaker B: Go ahead. [01:30:30] Speaker C: When we talk about marriage and we say I do, and we say these vows and stuff like that, if you are unhappy at some moment, then there's a conversation. This particular relationship to me was very performative online anyway, but I'm only going based off of social media. Once social media plays a part in a relationship, in a marriage, it's fucked. It's perceived one way, and then behind closed doors, we don't know what's happening. I'm not excusing nothing that he does because y' all know how I feel. But at the end of the day, we have a choice. It doesn't matter about the fame and the attention. You won't get this attention was coming which way anyway. They're very attractive, both of them. You have a choice. And he chose to do that. That. And. And this is a consequence of that and him feeling like he had to come and make a statement. I guess my whole thing with relationships and social media, once we put it out there, now we have to explain our relationship. [01:31:24] Speaker A: Yeah. I mean, we don't. [01:31:27] Speaker C: They do it, though, every relationship. Super performative at this point. Once we do content together, we got to perform now. [01:31:35] Speaker A: Right. But I don't think you have to. [01:31:37] Speaker C: And I like Christy. I think some of the got annoying for me, but I'm not there other audience, so I. I could say that in. In front of that camera, it gave he look, you know, he loved it. And he probably still does. I can't say that he does not. [01:31:52] Speaker A: Right. [01:31:52] Speaker C: But it's just once we get to this point on social media, we got to keep performing. [01:31:58] Speaker D: Yeah. [01:31:59] Speaker A: Because at this point, we got to keep up with the. [01:32:01] Speaker C: We got to keep up. There's a lot of them, and I like. I like them because I can tell this is Christy's perspective personality. [01:32:08] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:32:08] Speaker C: She liked the kick flip in some damn heels. And I'd be looking at her like, girl, what the hell? But he enjoyed it. That's one of the components. I'm sure when they met, she was like that. [01:32:17] Speaker A: Yeah. But I think. [01:32:19] Speaker C: And you can. But at 4, I would say at 14 to 30, we different people. We got kids now. That changes the dynamic of a whole relationship. [01:32:28] Speaker A: So go ahead, Brie. [01:32:30] Speaker E: No, go ahead. [01:32:30] Speaker A: No, go ahead. [01:32:31] Speaker E: I wanted to know, like, at what point. Point between them being together since they was 14 to now in their 30s, if you unhappy, where do you tell your partner? [01:32:39] Speaker A: Like, hey, there might have been a discussion. We don't know. [01:32:42] Speaker E: I mean, very. You know, that's a good question. [01:32:45] Speaker A: You mean, like, if it was us in the situation? [01:32:47] Speaker E: I'm just saying, like, if you're with your high school sweetheart and you know for sure. All right, I've been with you 10, 15 years. I'm thinking about marrying you. But I never experienced nothing else. [01:32:58] Speaker C: Right. [01:32:58] Speaker E: Wendy, you take the responsibility to say, all right, look, this is it. I love you, but. [01:33:05] Speaker A: But you want to experience other situations. [01:33:07] Speaker C: I did it. Go ahead. [01:33:09] Speaker B: I think that, you know, by not saying, hey, I want to know what else is out there, but I want to come back here. I think it's one of those things where people think that they're sparing the other one. Someone's feelings. [01:33:28] Speaker A: Feelings. [01:33:28] Speaker D: Yeah. [01:33:29] Speaker B: So they do it behind their back. [01:33:30] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:33:31] Speaker B: And it's like, okay, I'm gonna do this because I don't want to hurt you. [01:33:34] Speaker C: Yeah, it hurts more, but it hurt. [01:33:36] Speaker B: More when you don't tell the truth. And that's something that, you know, I think everybody struggles with because I call myself protecting your feelings. And then when I get caught. [01:33:46] Speaker C: But the crazy part is I'm really hurting them. Yeah. [01:33:48] Speaker A: I remember someone told me this. They was like, yo, you be surprised what honesty against you. [01:33:54] Speaker D: You would. [01:33:54] Speaker A: And I. And I found that. [01:33:56] Speaker B: But it's. But honesty is. It's scary as it is. [01:33:59] Speaker A: But I do. But I. I have found that the. The more that I was honest with the situation, the more I got what I wanted. [01:34:06] Speaker E: And I also want to input on that, because I lied my ass off in my first relationship. I'm just gonna be real. So the more if you ask me a question, like, hey, what are you looking for? I'm not looking for a damn thing. [01:34:17] Speaker C: Respectfully, you know, And. [01:34:18] Speaker E: And respectfully, if you tell that person off rip, like, boom, this is what I want. This is where I'm drawing my boundaries. They'll respect you a little bit. You know what I Can respect it. [01:34:29] Speaker C: Yeah, because I told you. [01:34:30] Speaker A: But I think you also have to be you as the individual who is. [01:34:34] Speaker C: She's on the other. [01:34:35] Speaker A: Okay, no, if I'm telling you, listen, this is how I want things to be. I also have to be okay with the consequence of what your decision. [01:34:42] Speaker B: But. But people are not consequence. [01:34:45] Speaker A: I mean, I'm using fair, but. [01:34:47] Speaker B: But people are not always okay with the. The truth. [01:34:51] Speaker A: Like, the consequence doesn't always mean bad. It just means I tell. [01:34:55] Speaker B: I tell say my truth, right? And I say, this is what I want. And she said, okay, cool. Well, I want to do this. And I'm like, wait, no, I don't want you to do that. [01:35:04] Speaker A: You can't do that. Yeah, you got to be okay with. [01:35:07] Speaker B: But. But a lot of people are not okay. [01:35:09] Speaker A: See, but what I do find is, is when the intimacy part happens, most women aren't about to go be intimate with another person. Now, they may go on dates. They may. And I'm not saying that's always true. Not saying that's always true. [01:35:24] Speaker C: They do. [01:35:25] Speaker A: Women's be. [01:35:27] Speaker B: They be. [01:35:28] Speaker C: Women be. But. No, but I do. I get where you're going with it because I can go on a date with another, but once I've become intimate with one person, this is just my perspective. Perspective from just multiple people. I'm you. [01:35:44] Speaker A: Right. [01:35:45] Speaker C: I don't know about me going and everybody I'm going on a date with. So it's sacred between me and you because we've already passed that point. But intimacy isn't always sacred to everyone. And that's the problem at this point, because I could. Tom, Dick and Harry and I feel nothing. So we did get back to that. So that kind of debunks what you said a little bit. [01:36:05] Speaker A: No, no, what I'm saying is. What I'm saying is, is most. What I find with most women, they don't. Once y' all start having. Yeah. It's like she may understand, like, okay, this is the situation. [01:36:17] Speaker C: This is what we doing. [01:36:18] Speaker A: Right. But at the same time, she still. [01:36:20] Speaker E: Go on a date. [01:36:21] Speaker A: Exactly. But she may not sleep with the individual. And I'm not saying that's always the case. [01:36:25] Speaker C: Yeah, but I think it is. [01:36:26] Speaker A: Women's be. [01:36:27] Speaker C: Women be. But that is like a big part of it. [01:36:29] Speaker B: There are a group of women that are h. They're a group of men that are. Or they're a group of men that are greedy. As you feel what I'm saying, it works. It works for both. Like. Like there's a group of Men out here that be like, yeah, I can hypothetically going on a date, but I ain't gonna. And there are a group of women that can go on a date and be like, yeah, but I'm not gonna. You got. You got streety. Streety as. You got streety as women. And there are a group of the people that are, you know, detached from the sexual aspect. It means nothing to them. [01:37:07] Speaker C: Okay. [01:37:07] Speaker B: They just be horny, right? [01:37:08] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:37:09] Speaker E: Right. [01:37:10] Speaker A: Because I ain't gonna hold you. [01:37:11] Speaker C: I remember. [01:37:11] Speaker B: It's nothing. [01:37:12] Speaker A: I remember I was dating this one girl and we had had the conversation about a whole stage. I'm like, oh, did you have a whole stage? Right? She's like, yeah, I had a whole stage. I'm like, damn. So you was out here just. And she was like. Like, that's not what a whole stage is. And she had to explain to me, like, a whole stage. She was like, that's one aspect of a whole stage. And kudos to any women that's doing that. But she was like, my whole stage was. I was this. I went. Got dick paused from this person. I went for emotional support from this person. This person had a couple dollars. So we went out on dates, we did things. You know what I'm saying? But. And so on and so on. Like, she had her roster. A roster for multiple things. But it wasn't like, I'm all of these guys, right? [01:37:56] Speaker B: And that's fine. Like. Like as. [01:37:59] Speaker A: As. And doing that well. [01:38:02] Speaker B: Well, we. [01:38:05] Speaker A: We the roster. Yes, we are the roster. [01:38:09] Speaker B: But we also. But we also sensitive as. We don't want you to know that you're girl. [01:38:15] Speaker A: Oh, yeah, we got the rotation. Is. [01:38:18] Speaker C: Me out of there. [01:38:19] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:38:20] Speaker C: I was dealing with three at the. [01:38:21] Speaker B: Same time, and they had different purposes. I'd be like, whore. No. [01:38:26] Speaker C: Really? Instantly jump today, it's like, did you a hoe? [01:38:29] Speaker A: And it's like, nah, it's not all. [01:38:30] Speaker C: That's not always a double standard, though. [01:38:32] Speaker A: Oh, absolutely. [01:38:34] Speaker B: I'm like. I'd be like. I'm like, I know you. You and I look at you differently. [01:38:40] Speaker E: But. [01:38:40] Speaker B: And I shouldn't. But am I at 40? I view things a whole lot different. And it's like, you know what? Okay, cool. You did this prior to. I. I prostituted my body for free. [01:38:54] Speaker A: Right, right, right. [01:38:54] Speaker E: My God. [01:38:56] Speaker A: But I think. [01:38:57] Speaker B: I think you like me. I'mma let you have. [01:38:59] Speaker A: I think. I think. I think most. Most. Most situations. Right? I think most women and men, I think men look at when. Like their. Their piece or whatever, you know, the Little chicks that they're dealing with, when they venture out, it's like. It's a visual imagination thing. Like, it's a skit. [01:39:21] Speaker E: So y' all don't think that's the same for us? [01:39:23] Speaker A: I'm not saying it's not, but I guarantee. Let me ask you this. [01:39:27] Speaker B: Harness it a different way. [01:39:28] Speaker A: Yeah. I was about to say, because for us, it's like. Like, I remember this girl telling me, like, she cheated on her man with a. And it was the worst sex she ever had. It only, like, lasted two minutes, and it was terrible. Right. And she was like, damn, that was a waste of a body. But if her found out that she. That in his mind, it was the best sex she ever had. [01:39:50] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:39:51] Speaker A: That was doing with her. He was your face. He didn't nut it in your butthole, in your mouth, your ear, your belly button. [01:40:04] Speaker B: The wild be asking questions that you. [01:40:07] Speaker A: Really don't want to ask. [01:40:08] Speaker C: What the answer. [01:40:09] Speaker B: I don't do. [01:40:10] Speaker A: But Kanye had a real good point about the whole situation with him. Remember that Drake. [01:40:13] Speaker B: I don't want to ask. [01:40:14] Speaker A: He was like, the. The imagination is worse than actually knowing. Yeah. Which is true. [01:40:20] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:40:21] Speaker A: Because I can sit here and visualize what I think happened. [01:40:23] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:40:24] Speaker B: You paint a narrative. [01:40:25] Speaker A: Right. [01:40:25] Speaker B: And now she's a crazy. [01:40:27] Speaker A: I don't know if women think of it like that. [01:40:29] Speaker E: Best friend hat asked me, and we were just talking casually. He was just like. But I want to know if you ever was like, you know, in your whole stage. I said, man, I'm ran a whole house. And it didn't necessarily mean, like, yeah, me having sex with somebody or having sex with all my options. [01:40:43] Speaker C: And he was like, for real. [01:40:44] Speaker E: I'm like, what? I had him. [01:40:48] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah, yeah. [01:40:48] Speaker C: It's never about having sex with them. It's just the options and the availability that they give that you can dilly dally. [01:40:54] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:40:54] Speaker C: Because, you know, I love the dilly dally down the street in Hampton, But I just feel like now this is just my opinion, y'. [01:41:06] Speaker D: All. [01:41:06] Speaker C: I'm watching Insecure again for the hundreds. [01:41:15] Speaker A: I mean, I watched it when it was running. [01:41:17] Speaker B: You gotta go back and watch it. [01:41:19] Speaker C: So many different stages of your life, you gotta watch that. [01:41:22] Speaker E: Me and Tay, I had told say, I said I'm a combination of. Of literally Issa, Lawrence, and Molly. That was all at once. Because it's just like, Molly, she's this not career woman, but she is so deep into her career. Issa is trying to figure out her career, and Lawrence is just like, oh, I love my girl so much, and she do so much for me, so I'm gonna support her. [01:41:43] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:41:43] Speaker E: And stay stagnant. [01:41:45] Speaker C: I don't think it was that, Kelly. I mean, not to say that it. [01:41:49] Speaker E: Was just that I think. [01:41:50] Speaker A: I don't think it was like, so. So this is. We. After this conversation, we can end it. [01:41:55] Speaker D: Yeah. [01:41:55] Speaker A: But I think what women have to understand with men is sometimes we fall into a cycle, a routine, and sometimes the routine becomes comfortable. Right. So it's like the idea of doing something we're more comfortable with than actually doing it. [01:42:14] Speaker E: So my question is, y' all don't think that we know that? [01:42:16] Speaker A: No, I'm not saying. I'm just saying Lawrence. That's what I think was happening with Lawrence's case. Character. Lawrence's character had that idea for that app. [01:42:23] Speaker E: But what we want y' all to understand is when we try to get y' all out of that stagnant position and you. We're not being forceful. [01:42:31] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:42:31] Speaker E: We see your potential, and that's our problem. [01:42:33] Speaker C: Yeah. Seeing the potential, Lawrence. It took a minute for her. Issa stayed down. I'm not excusing her cheating, but Issa stayed down and supported him for a lot. And I feel like she watched. And I heard her say it. I watched the fruits of my labor because he went to the next person, unfortunately. And. But. [01:42:53] Speaker A: And that's usually what. That's usually how it happens. [01:42:55] Speaker C: Yeah. But it's just. But it's disheartening because it's like, damn, I didn't force your hand. I'm just like, all right, babe, how can we do this? How can we do that? And I get it. A man got it. You know, he wants to do it on his own. But if you have that, the way that Issa supported him, it's not necessarily. [01:43:08] Speaker A: About doing it on your own. It's how it's coming off. Like, I would like, you know, boys, you know what song I used to hate when one of my exes used to sing when I was broke? That Chris Brown, When a Rich wants you. I used to hate when she was. And I noticed she was saying it because the song was catchy. I'm sorry, but in my mind, it was like. Yeah. [01:43:29] Speaker B: Like, you were insecure about. About a thing. [01:43:32] Speaker A: Right. [01:43:32] Speaker B: Like, I think, like, if women are insecure, so we as men, and. And I think we have a tendency of saying, let me hurt you before you hurt me. [01:43:42] Speaker C: Oh, I feel that. [01:43:45] Speaker E: Hold on. Repeat. [01:43:46] Speaker A: Let you hurt. Let me hurt you before you hurt me. [01:43:50] Speaker B: I said, I think most men are more insecure. [01:43:54] Speaker A: Oh, absolutely. So because there's more weight on our. [01:43:56] Speaker B: Shoulders, so we say, let me hurt you before you hurt me. [01:43:59] Speaker A: Yeah. Because it's more weight on our shoulders. [01:44:01] Speaker B: And you may be telling the absolute truth. Right? [01:44:03] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:44:04] Speaker B: Like, I never stepped out on you, blah, blah. And. But you know what it is? I think a lot of times be like, if I was in you, in your shoes, I would have cheated on you. [01:44:15] Speaker D: And. [01:44:15] Speaker B: And when it's hard for us to believe that you didn't do it, even though you're telling the God's honest truth. And I'd be like, I mean, you. [01:44:23] Speaker A: Can even look at it in that sense. Right. Because when you typically look at men, when they cheat, they typically cheat down. Women typically cheat up. She's always going to cheat with a. That's better than. [01:44:32] Speaker B: I've cheated both ways. [01:44:34] Speaker A: But. But I'm just saying, as far as, like, on a. On a consistent basis, my honest. No, no, no, no. That's fair. That's. But I'm just saying on the. On. On like a. I don't think a general standpoint, most men cheat down because they can provide something for that woman who's not in the position that their own girl is in. [01:44:51] Speaker C: I'm gonna come in and say I don't. As a woman. I never thought. I have never. I haven't cheated. But I'm just saying. I'm just thinking of a perspective. No, it is what it is. I was. I just. I don't always do a up and down. I think it's. It's what you provide for me in that moment that I'm not getting. So it's not really about. [01:45:10] Speaker A: Yeah. And typically that is doing better than the other. [01:45:12] Speaker C: No, it's not that. It's not. [01:45:14] Speaker A: It's doing work. [01:45:16] Speaker C: It's not about when women cheat. It's not about that. That's where misconception comes in. [01:45:21] Speaker E: Okay, cool. If me and my man aren't communicating or having conversation, there's a man that. [01:45:27] Speaker C: Wants to do it, that wants to. [01:45:28] Speaker E: Do it, and he does it. Well, I think that's. [01:45:31] Speaker A: I think. I think. [01:45:32] Speaker E: Hold on. [01:45:32] Speaker A: That's fair there. [01:45:34] Speaker E: Joe Scott said, is it the way. [01:45:36] Speaker B: You love me, baby? [01:45:40] Speaker A: Let's take a long walk. [01:45:42] Speaker C: Is unserious right now. [01:45:44] Speaker E: Jo Scott basically says she wants her man fair, firm, and consistent. Now, given about three or four days, a whole bunch of women is going to be saying, hey, that's how I want my man to be. But y' all don't really Understand what. [01:45:56] Speaker C: She'S saying, what she meant. [01:45:57] Speaker E: She want her man fair there. So what she need, what he need? We gonna do it together, right? Firm. I'm gonna stand on my actions, consistent. I'm gonna be consistent with my actions to show you you can be submissive with me. [01:46:11] Speaker B: So cool. [01:46:13] Speaker E: If my man isn't being consistent, firm and fair with my emotions, Imma go. [01:46:17] Speaker C: I have to find that somewhere else. [01:46:20] Speaker E: Is it right? No, but I told you you wasn't doing it. So now someone else is being firm, fair, and consistent with the little that you want. [01:46:29] Speaker C: That was good, Bri. Women stay way longer than we should. [01:46:33] Speaker A: They do. [01:46:34] Speaker C: And then when we do leave, cuz one thing I learned about a man, he going to put himself first. Women stay so much longer. And then when she leaves, it's just like, damn, you just left me for dead. And this. And third, it's been repetition. I've been telling you and showing you in so many different ways. And unfortunately, I hate to say it, but my work husband, you know, that's what they call it, he might just. It might have been something simple that you didn't do. It was like your hair looked different. He noticed. [01:47:01] Speaker E: Can ask you how many, however many different times, how were you feeling? [01:47:06] Speaker C: Oh, yeah, that's it. [01:47:07] Speaker A: When I was up Amazon, I was a menace. [01:47:11] Speaker B: But you know. You know what's crazy, though? Like, even Leah said it to me, you know, if I. If I speak highly about her to everybody else, like, yeah, my woman is this she, this she, dope, blah, blah, so on and so forth. I thought I was. But she, you know, she told me she was like, yo, I want you to tell me. Like, I thought. And I'm like, I thought you knew already. [01:47:45] Speaker C: Different. When it come to your man. [01:47:49] Speaker E: It'S a whole different type of feeling because it's just like, we don't. [01:47:52] Speaker D: Yeah. [01:47:52] Speaker B: Like, and I. [01:47:54] Speaker D: And I. [01:47:55] Speaker B: And I lack. Like, she told me she was like, yo, it's been a while since you bought me flowers. I'm like, for real? But I'm like. She was like, yeah, you kind of slacked off on it. I'm like, damn, mental. [01:48:05] Speaker A: No. [01:48:06] Speaker B: Okay, cool. Let me get back to that. Because somewhere, somehow, I got off camera track. [01:48:11] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:48:11] Speaker B: You understand what I'm saying? [01:48:12] Speaker E: Yeah. [01:48:12] Speaker B: And that's. And a lot of times, if she said to me, I'm like, all right, man, whatever. And that's me saying, I hear you, but it's just my facial expressions and how I present it, but I. I hear her. And I'm. And I've been doing a whole lot better with that. [01:48:27] Speaker C: Okay. [01:48:28] Speaker B: Like, when she talk, I hear what she said. Like it was something small. She was like, yeah, babe. So I was drinking coffee and I noticed that the. The metal coffee. [01:48:37] Speaker D: Coffee. [01:48:38] Speaker B: Coffee mugs makes my coffee taste different. I want a ceramic, you know, coffee mug. So I went on. Went on Amazon, found one. I'm like, hey, listen, what you think about this? She like, well, that's too expensive. I'm like, but you said you wanted a ceramic. Yeah. She said, well, babe, thanks for thinking about it. Whole time she's a. Somebody already had bought her when it. [01:48:59] Speaker A: Was her. [01:49:02] Speaker B: She was like, I appreciate you thinking about. About me. It showed that I listen. Am I still an at times? Absolutely. But I hear everything that she say. [01:49:10] Speaker A: Right. [01:49:10] Speaker E: I kind of feel like I apply. [01:49:12] Speaker B: It when I need to apply it. [01:49:13] Speaker A: Right. [01:49:13] Speaker E: It's like men, some men needing the emotional vulnerability for their woman to just listen to them. [01:49:21] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:49:22] Speaker E: It don't matter what the. [01:49:23] Speaker A: Well, it's two parts of that. It's not even just the. It's the emotional vulnerability, the emotional environment. No, but I'm just saying that makes. It's really too. Two parts. Is that. And not judging. [01:49:33] Speaker E: Okay. [01:49:33] Speaker A: So it's two parts to that. [01:49:35] Speaker D: Yeah. [01:49:35] Speaker B: I gotta. I gotta be able to express myself to you, not be weaponized or judged. [01:49:41] Speaker A: You can't go to work the next day to your work husband like this. He complaining about bills. [01:49:47] Speaker E: Yeah, but. [01:49:48] Speaker D: Right. [01:49:48] Speaker E: And I totally understand that because somebody had asked me, how do you feel about me being emotional, vulnerable? I said, me personally. Personally, it's a preference because I feel like if I can't talk to you or if you can't come and talk to me, we don't. [01:50:02] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:50:03] Speaker E: If I can't be. [01:50:04] Speaker C: It's not safe. [01:50:05] Speaker E: It's not safe. So this is a judgment free zone. [01:50:09] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:50:09] Speaker A: Point blank period. I feel that. [01:50:11] Speaker C: I think women do. I think we've gotten better. I'm not gonna say we always were there, but I think we've gotten better with the emotional vulnerability to men. [01:50:20] Speaker A: Oh. They fighting back, though. [01:50:22] Speaker C: I think think there is a space, though, where we have a lot of emotional unavailable people in general. [01:50:31] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:50:31] Speaker C: And when the emotional and the emotional unavailability and ego just cannot exist, where all of these things need to be. [01:50:39] Speaker E: And then also it's like the consideration in my. [01:50:43] Speaker C: Yeah. To be considered, you. [01:50:45] Speaker A: You. You got to be considering closer to the mic. [01:50:48] Speaker E: You gotta be considerate. Okay. I kind of feel like, you know, some women are inconsiderate of Some men's feelings, you know, because they have been propped and pampered so much that they really don't care what a man feel like. And me personally, and I said this in my little notes with my little quotes, I just said that I've come to the age where I'm a partial girl's girl, because there's a lot of women out here here. That's not holding other women accountable. [01:51:17] Speaker C: I agree. [01:51:17] Speaker A: Oh, yeah, y'. [01:51:18] Speaker C: All. [01:51:18] Speaker A: Don't be calling women losers. [01:51:19] Speaker C: Girls, girl. I. I like the girls that like y'. All. I'm not a girl's girl. [01:51:24] Speaker A: I overlook that. See how she overlooked that? [01:51:26] Speaker C: Why no women are losers. [01:51:28] Speaker A: There we go. [01:51:31] Speaker C: Me and Brie had a whole conversation about availability and friends and I think. [01:51:37] Speaker A: The girls podcast coming soon. [01:51:39] Speaker C: Yeah, yeah. With us. [01:51:42] Speaker D: Yeah. [01:51:42] Speaker E: It's called the On Public Opinion. Okay, okay, Look, Tony. [01:51:46] Speaker A: Trapped by the wiretap productions. Welcome to Death Row. [01:51:52] Speaker C: That was such a great point. I feel like new Patreon social media has done this thing with women where it's like, it's all about us. And these men have not created this space where they feel comfortable to share. Like, hey, baby, I'm just having a bad time right now. I'm having a bad day. My money up. I just need a hug. A. Don't even be wanting. Maybe you just crazy. [01:52:12] Speaker A: Hold on. I literally just seen a go on. He went on Instagram. He was talking about how he was working at Amazon, and that wasn't adding up. He was like, yo, I'm an hour away from my house. I've only made 200. Like, how the. Is y' all making $1500? [01:52:28] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:52:28] Speaker A: And I'm. I don't get it. Like, I don't know what the to do. So it was this older lady. She was like, this man is over here whining, you need to. And I respond, I say, look, listen, this man literally is asking us for help. Or like, that's essentially what he's asking. Like, how. Yeah, how do we. How are we doing it? Yeah, because he's not figuring it out. He just said he work another whole job. And she was like, well, back in Monday, my daddy in civil rights, he went through. And I was like, you don't know what your father was complaining about to your mother. [01:52:55] Speaker C: It ain't your day at all. [01:52:57] Speaker E: What I want to ask. [01:52:58] Speaker B: It's not your day. [01:52:59] Speaker C: Go ahead. [01:52:59] Speaker A: And then we'll finish here. [01:53:00] Speaker E: And I always tell my homegirls this, don't expect something from a man, man, that you don't get for yourself. And I only say that simply because it's a lot of women out here that want the soft life from a man. But, ma', am, you ain't even gave yourself the soft. [01:53:14] Speaker C: You can't. [01:53:15] Speaker A: You can't even afford it yourself. [01:53:17] Speaker C: You can't. [01:53:17] Speaker A: You can't even get your nails done every six months. [01:53:19] Speaker E: So I hear my homegirls, oh, I want a man to do this, and I want a man to do that for me. Honey, have you done it? [01:53:26] Speaker A: You drive a 1992 Honda Accord. [01:53:28] Speaker C: What can you do for yourself? I hate the narrative of, oh, I'm not sending you a picture of my nails because you didn't pay for it. You were already gonna pay for them. [01:53:36] Speaker D: Like, you already gonna pay for it. [01:53:40] Speaker E: Part of it is they just want you to offer. [01:53:42] Speaker C: No, honey, how did he know that you was. He didn't know that. He didn't know that. [01:53:48] Speaker B: You know. You know when I know. You know when I know. Leah getting her hair done and getting her nails done when I call her, hey, babe, what you doing? Nothing. I'm already at the salon getting my head down. She's going to do it anyway. She don't. She don't put that type of pressure on me to where I got it. [01:54:00] Speaker C: This is your physical appearance. This is your physical appearance. [01:54:03] Speaker B: You don't pay for my haircut unless I hey, boy, you trying to pay for my haircut? [01:54:06] Speaker A: And she look at you in disgust. [01:54:07] Speaker E: Haircut. And I felt good about it, baby. [01:54:08] Speaker C: I'mma pay for the haircut for my man. [01:54:11] Speaker B: If I ask. [01:54:12] Speaker A: I've only ever had that happen once. [01:54:14] Speaker C: I hate that. Me and Bria love a girl. Sorry to them that want to be mean. And we love y'. [01:54:19] Speaker B: All, like, like, loser, like, boo, I need money for my haircut. [01:54:25] Speaker E: The cash app ain't got to be anonymous. I'm sending the cash app. Go ahead and get you hungry. [01:54:30] Speaker C: You want some wings? Y' all going to the bar, you. [01:54:32] Speaker B: Know, deliver that work? [01:54:35] Speaker D: Yeah. [01:54:35] Speaker B: Got to order. For matter of fact, this is a. [01:54:38] Speaker A: Meet me after she sent me the money. Hey, guys, I'mma go ahead and head out. [01:54:43] Speaker E: Listen and shout out to my. My Harlem boo. He literally came here and let me do nothing. I cooked, he washed the dishes. I never experienced that. [01:54:57] Speaker C: I loved it. I was eating it up, nosy as. [01:54:59] Speaker A: Like, all right, y'. All. All right, y'. All, we gonna end it here. We gonna be back next week with. [01:55:06] Speaker C: Another part, cuz, you know, I be. [01:55:08] Speaker A: F. Oh, yeah, she been up. [01:55:10] Speaker C: I'm sorry. I don't remember what I'm supposed to say. [01:55:12] Speaker E: Yeah, I up, too. [01:55:14] Speaker C: We had our own twist, as always. [01:55:18] Speaker B: Like, follow subscribe. [01:55:19] Speaker A: If you're feeling frisky, go ahead and comment, baby. [01:55:23] Speaker C: Comment, baby. [01:55:24] Speaker D: That's all. [01:55:24] Speaker A: What the was that? [01:55:28] Speaker C: Comment, baby. [01:55:29] Speaker A: There it is. [01:55:30] Speaker C: All right. [01:55:30] Speaker A: We're gonna add that as a soundboard. Tap into Baltimore's very own wiretap tv.
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